Dumped for bad kissing/shyness

LegacyUser

I was dating a girl the last few months and was dumped. Basically even though i really like her I acted very nervously around her, and rejected her early passes, then when we got going my kissing was shocking. Negative thoughts that I would blow this did get to me. She lost any physical attraction that was there.

I like her so much and really want to show her the real me. I'm 35, and have always bad a shyness problem but have had plenty of gfs without issues. The fact I like this girl so much somehow affected me and I cannot understand that. I have written to her explaining myself but probably had not given her space. I know she wants to like me, she has told me that. I just don't know how I can make that happen

December2012

You can't make her like you or lust you.

Are you shy generally around women

Lorna123

Do not contact her anymore. Leave her be. Running after her will only chase her away. She is not right for you and that is the bottom line. Stop putting yourself down and blaming yourself for this break up. If it was right it would not have happened. She didn't dump you just because your kisses didn't do it for her, she dumped you because she was not attracted to you and hard and all as that might sound that is what happened. You cannot make her want you as the above poster said, so forget about her and know that you will knock the socks off the right woman. Best of Luck.

Curry Addict

acting nervous around women is a big turn off. confidence around women is attractive. it sounds like she gave you some time to get more comfortable but you didnt rise to the challenge.