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  • 21-03-2013 4:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My best friend broke up with his girlfriend after 4 years and a year after their seperation something happened with me and his OH.

    It was a low point in my life and anyone who showed me any attention I was going to go for. Not making excuses, just giving background. What I did was very wrong. She made the advances to me (long story), but there is obviously no excuse for me letting it happen, takes 2 to tango etc. When it came to the crunch, she wanted me to tell him, was pushing really hard for me to but I didnt want to lose him as a friend and so we went our seperate ways.

    They are now back together and Im scared to death she will tell him. (she says she thinks he has his suspicions). She is slightly f*cking with my head telling me she wont deny it if it comes up etc.

    I have no interest in her in that way, just dont want to lose/ hurt a good friend, a bit late I know but any advice on what to do...

    Thanks

    Sham


Comments

  • #2
    ElleEm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    To be honest, I would just tell him.

    How long are they back together? I would imagine WHEN (and it will) it comes out, your friend would be more upset that you both kept it a secret. You will always have this hanging over your head, so just tell him and deal with the sh!t.


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