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reaction to cheating need advice

  • 14-03-2013 1:42pm
    #1
    libidoontour
    Site Banned Posts: 16 ✭


    lads what u think i should do my partner of 5 years whom i have a child and house with a big mortgage on it with recently cheated on me...it was going on for 3 years.

    dont have a clue what to do


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  • #2
    Boombastic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    Wow, What an awful thing to find out OP. Your partner has been cheating for the majority of your relationship. Personally I would break off the relationship, they are not trustworthy. I know you have a mortgage and child, but it is not worth staying in a relationship with such a deceitful person, Are you legally recognised as the child's father, If you are not married? I would ask them to go to stay with their parents /out of the house until you decide what to do.


  • #3
    Ella
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,772 ✭✭✭Ella


    How did you find out? Is it 100% over? 3 years is a very long time. I wouldnt be able to forgive and forget if it was me.


  • #4
    Three Seasons
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 548 ✭✭✭Three Seasons


    I'd break up and continue living in the house with the child. Tell her to sleep in the spare bedroom if there is one or on the couch.


  • #5
    libidoontour
    Site Banned Posts: 16 ✭libidoontour


    Ella wrote: »
    How did you find out? Is it 100% over? 3 years is a very long time. I wouldnt be able to forgive and forget if it was me.

    over 3 years...

    a friend spotted her in her ex's car and she has been texting non stop with the phone screen locked for years..

    and she finally admitted it


  • #6
    nocoverart
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    She didn't "recently" cheat on you! it has been going on for over 3 years. I think for your own self respect you know what you should do.
    Mortgage or not, the child (which is sad) you can't let any of this make you stay with somebody like that.


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