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Met a new guy

  • 13-03-2013 4:47pm
    #1
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭


    I met a guy about two weeks ago when away for the weekend, he seemed really nice and we have been exchange text messages since, not every day but a few times a week. he lives a 4 hour drive away. Was saying he'd like to see me again, do i suggest meeting half way or inviting him to the town I live in or just leaving the ball in his court, I have told him I would like to see him too.

    Suggestions please!


Comments

  • #2
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    If you want to have sex with him then meet him in your town. If you don't then meet him halfway.


  • #3
    Oryx
    Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Sorry if this sounds obvious, but haven't you asked him what he would like to do? If you both want to see each other, then, just do?

    If youre happy having him stay at yours, invite him.
    If you want to share journey hassles, meet halfway.
    It doesn't have to be complicated, talk to him!


  • #4
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭shoes34


    blatantrereg wrote: »
    If you want to have sex with him then meet him in your town. If you don't then meet him halfway.


    Its not a case of I want to have sex with him, I only met him the once and we have been texting since. Anyway I texted him to say that if he had no plans for the weekend that he was more then welcome to take a trip up here. As it happens he has plans but said that may at Easter. which is fine as I know it was short notice but glad I said it too.


  • #5
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Meet him halfway so. If you invite him back to your place he might equate that with an offer of sex. It would be fair enough to interpret it that way I think.
    Best to be egalitarian in how you deal with people, especially people you might want a relationship with. Four hours over and four hours back is a lot of travel for a cup of tea. Meeting him halfway would be the polite thing to do imo.


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