advice?

Sirsok

Hey guys, as of Saturday I broke up with my missus, a wonderful and beautiful girl who deserved better from me, I have a level 8 degree and went to Australia which didn't work out but since I came home I had started loving life. I then net this wonderfull girl.

Due to how well my job was going and so forth I decided to take up some exam in work. To better my career. This is where the problem arose, the stress really got to me and I failed, I then slumped. Into some some of depression and started drinking, I never got violent or anything but I just would drink all day, I gave up sports stopped hangin with friends etc.I just couldn have a laugh anymore and I thought this was reflecting in my relationship with her.

Her ex who she has a child with was an alcoholic who made her go through a lot of **** she didn't deserve, and still is. It was hard for me to bite my tongue, but I did. Then my drinking occured and I don't want it to escalate to the point it really starts impacting her life also. So due to my faults and problems I pushed her away.

She did not see this coming at all she thought what ever problems I was having is snap out of it and return to normal, but I haven't and don't believe I will with her. She is a beautiful and sweet person who deserved better but I feel like a Dick for hurting her in such away, she is crying and says she can't cope. I really dunno what to do

She was so nice that I feel like ill end up taking advantage of the situation, I have been a shell of the man that started with her, so really was it fair to finish it or should I of giving it another chance .

downwesht

Get her to read your post,then have a chat.
You can stop the drinking for a start, it is a crutch and a great excuse when things go wrong( I've been there).
If you love this girl and want it to work you have to make an effort to make things right,if she loves you she will give you a break!
Good luck.