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  • 08-03-2013 8:45pm
    #1
    jaspertheghost
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 231 ✭✭


    ok here goes. Im a married man with kids, my wife recently found gay porn on my phone, she asked me what was going on and i told her i had been with 2 guys (seperatley for a night) years ago, she now says im gay, i was in a very abusive relationship with a woman for 5 years (i was being physically abused) and these encounters happened after that, and the porn my wife found, i watched when we had a big fight and i moved out for a few days, im very very confused at the moment, i have no desire to have a relationship with a man but i did enjoy the sex with a man, i do find some men attractive but i still find girls attractive to, right now my head is a mess, one thing i can say is that when i finally told my wife the truth i t was like an elephant had been lifted off my chest, has anyone been thru this before? i would really appreciate some advice, dont want to ring helplines coz i dont feel it would be benefit to me as i would just end up arguing wioth the person on the other end. thanks


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  • #2
    oisindoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    jaspertheghost wrote: »
    ok here goes. Im a married man with kids, my wife recently found gay porn on my phone, she asked me what was going on and i told her i had been with 2 guys (seperatley for a night) years ago, she now says im gay, i was in a very abusive relationship with a woman for 5 years (i was being physically abused) and these encounters happened after that, and the porn my wife found, i watched when we had a big fight and i moved out for a few days, im very very confused at the moment, i have no desire to have a relationship with a man but i did enjoy the sex with a man, i do find some men attractive but i still find girls attractive to, right now my head is a mess, one thing i can say is that when i finally told my wife the truth i t was like an elephant had been lifted off my chest, has anyone been thru this before? i would really appreciate some advice, dont want to ring helplines coz i dont feel it would be benefit to me as i would just end up arguing wioth the person on the other end. thanks


    I know you said you didnt want to call a "helpline " BUT i would suggest you look at the link below .
    It is a married mens group for gay/bisexual men.
    I bet many in this group are in or have been through what you are going through.
    Why not give it a go.
    Best of luck
    http://www.gayswitchboard.ie/mmg.html


  • #3
    jaspertheghost
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 231 ✭✭jaspertheghost


    wheres the link?


  • #4
    oisindoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 899 ✭✭✭oisindoyle


    jaspertheghost wrote: »
    wheres the link?

    Sorry posted it and omitted the link .I added it now and here also

    http://www.gayswitchboard.ie/mmg.html


  • #5
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Regarding domestic abuse, there is a group called AMEN. I can't think of their contact information at the moment. As for your attractions, it's completely normal.


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