Help needed

Tomaspet85

Ok guys new to this but need help, got dumped 3 months ago, still think about her every day, we broke up on good terms we had a holiday to rome booked and went , had a great time, she says I'm her best friend but she cannot put the effort into the relationship, she had been with people since we broke up and now is seeing someone , she would never have an issue finding anyone new as she is gorgous but I'm having trouble moving on and I keep emailing and texting still she said she doesn't want me and never wants to get back , she has moved past me and is living her life and I'm still struggling iv tried to keep busy iv tried out with friends but on nights out in a small town we see each other , any advice needed

Sephiroth_dude

Your gonna need to cut contact and don't have anything to do with her until you are fully over her,don't txt her or email her anymore,your probably doing her head in and pushing her away even more,just leave it and move on,I know everything I said above is easier said than but it's what you have to do,it's not a nice situation to be in at all,just keep yourself busy,go out with your friends,do whatever you have to do to get her out of your head.I hope this helps you along.

best of luck.

Paddy Cow

Your ex is finding it much easier to move on because she was the one who ended the relationship. It sounds like you are still in love with her and as long as you are, like the above poster said, you need to cut off contact for your own sanity. That's probably not the advice you want to hear but it would be the best thing you can do for yourself.

Tomaspet85

Thanks guys, I no what I should be doing as you both have said, just finding it difficult to let go , and not think about her , thanks for you'r input

Sephiroth_dude

Tomaspet85 wrote: »

Thanks guys, I no what I should be doing as you both have said, just finding it difficult to let go , and not think about her , thanks for you'r input

believe me i know that feeling all to well