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erection problem

  • 06-03-2013 1:18pm
    #1
    brianstafford
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2 ✭


    Hi,

    Ok so, I am 21 years old and in a relationship about 2 months (my first sexual relationship ever and first relationship for a long time) with someone who I really care for and would do anything for.

    However, I have a problem. I have been unable to 'get it up' anytime we go to have sex.

    Now...I do find her attractive...both physically and sexually. Physically as in any time we are touching, kissing, etc especially when standing up, I get an erection. Also I get quite "wet" down there.

    I do find her sexually attractive as in "I would like to have sex with you" as opposed to "damn your body rocks!, I want to shag you now!". However, if sex didn't occur, I wouldn't be overly pushed/disappointed.

    I know that having an erection, particularly when in a situation such as kissing, etc, is a sign of arousal or being 'turned on'. But whats weird is the fact that I cannot get an erection if the kissing, cuddling, etc goes on for a long time or if we are about to have sex - but I do produce alot of pre-cum(even when not erect)..which I read is a sign that you are ready for sex, ye?

    Is this correct? What does it sound like is wrong here?


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  • #2
    brianstafford
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2 ✭brianstafford


    Just to add.....should I get aroused when we are in bed together just kissing, etc...because I don't...but i do when standing
    (perhaps its because deep down I know sex is coming)..so maybe physchological..anxiety?

    I only get aroused in certain situations and by certain stimulus. For example, a way she might touch me..or something she
    might do to me.

    But just lying there kissing and touching in any way does not really get me aroused.


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    Ickle Magoo
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  • #4
    im confused again
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 59 ✭✭im confused again


    Read the thread "sexual attractiveness/problem with sex", it's somebody with a similar problem.


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