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too easy to stay single parent

  • 04-03-2013 11:00pm
    #1
    RubyGlee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 376 ✭✭


    Right so im 28, im a single parent to one fab ickle 8yr old. Im thinking perhaps I have become too used to being single. I work full time. I have a group of friends i see a lot of and between work, kid, friends etc I really dont see where I would find time to have a relationship?
    Most week nights its just me by myself after daughter is in bed and that doesnt bother me like..but now im thinking shes 8 in a few years she will want to spending time with her friends and wont want to keep mummy company. Then there are some things I want from life which arent that easy to get as a single person but then I dont know if i really want to put effort into finding a partner and keeping one. and then sure I dont know how the little one would handle an extra person hanging around..
    I isnt getting any younger and will be 30 soon enough and starting to think maybe i should start thinking bout future. the future needs a second income coming in...thats not really a good enough reason to look for a life partner though...ah what to do what to do


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  • #2
    homerjay2005
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,346 ✭✭✭✭homerjay2005


    your motives for this are wrong wrong wrong.

    sort our what you want in life first before involving somebody else, somebody who from what i am reading, you do not want.


  • #3
    Roisy7
    Closed Accounts Posts: 548 ✭✭✭Roisy7


    Look, if the right man comes along, great. But being in a relationship just because you think you should be is silly and immature.

    Are you lonely? Do you miss intimacy? Do you feel ready for a relationship?


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