gf cant afford to come to my friends bday tonight but annoyed with me....

LegacyUser

for wanting to go and stay for the night, now when i say the night i mean till the pub closes.

i could possibly pay for her whole night but money is tight and i dont want to get into the habbit of paying for everything, i already pay for most.

-last monday i was told about dinner for friends bday on fri night, i asked her would she liek to come and she said yeah
-then yest she said she couldnt afford dinner so i said what about we go for the drinks after she said yeah
- she said she couldnt go at all today cause she had no money at all, i said id buy her one or two and had some wine int he house that we could drink beforehand

she's asking me why would i rather stay for the few extra drinks rather than stay for one or 2 with her and then leave cause she didnt have enough money

am i right in thinking she should just either come and enjoy herself with the few drinks she gets or just let me go and enjoy my friends bday

she's fond of an ould fight so i just want to have this straight in my head before i try defend myself

Catari Jaguar

So you offered to drop out of the dinner as a compromise for her already and she threw that back in your face. You offered to buy her drinks. She declined both offers and is making this about you spending time with her instead of it being about your friend's birthday.

Was she even invited to this birthday by your friend or is she your tag along?

Misery loves company and that's all this is. So selfish of her. She needs to cop the fcuk on.