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Two Loves

  • 11-02-2013 9:51pm
    #1
    shaygurl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    So I need some advice. Since I was 16 i've been in love with the same boy, tyler. We have a strange connection that I can't pull myself away from. We have never talked about our feelings with eachother but everyone knows about him and I who has been in our circles of friends. Well its 10 years later and I've been dating another guy, zak, who I also love. Its been almost 2 years since we've started seeing eachother and he is the greatest guy in the world but as awesome as he is I'm still friends with the first guy and everytime I see tyler I rethink my feelings for zak. I feel as though a ring may be coming soon and I know I could and would be happy the rest of my life with zak but shouldn't I not have as strong feelings for someone else when I'm about to get engaged? I'm torn as to if I should just forget about tyler, the boy I've loved for years and never explored those unresolved feelings, or should I try and see what happens so I don't always wonder what if. I understand if people say you don't wanna wonder what if but I don't think zak would appreciate me deciding I needed sometime to decide if I love someone else more... Thoughts


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  • #2
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    shaygurl wrote: »
    I understand if people say you don't wanna wonder what if but I don't think zak would appreciate me deciding I needed sometime to decide if I love someone else more...
    I also don't think Zak would appreciate you deciding to spend your life with him while you're still in love with someone else.

    I think you're going to need to make a choice and commit to it. You can't just try Tyler on for size for a while and then go back to Zak, but you can't stay with Zak and hold on to these other feelings for Tyler. You're going to have to take a leap of faith and whichever one of these men you choose, you're going to have to permanently let go of the other one.


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