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  • 09-02-2013 11:36pm
    #1
    Tower77
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  • #2
    ladysarah
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 155 ✭✭ladysarah


    she must have liked you to go out with you. but she may not feel as strongly as you do or she may have been hurt in the past and is afraid of getting hurt again. i kbow what it feels like to feel that way about somebody and it is v hard to walk away when you feel like that. my advise she knows how you feel so play it v cool with her. the best of luck)


  • #3
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Sounds like you came on a bit heavy with the "I like you" thing. You sound very intense in your post here, so I imagine you came across that way with her too. You just got ahead of yourself a bit really. Can be pretty off-putting when someone comes on too strong.

    You're displaying a level of emotional commitment to her that is very inappropriate at this stage. You thought it was the one thing in life you can't be wrong about? What was? That you'd get together? That is very presumptuous [at best], and it will manifest as pushiness [at best], no matter how respectful you think you're being.

    You need to reel that in and slow your mind down. Don't try to "play it cool". Actually cool yourself down and let go of things. You don't have any claim on her. It's great that you're delighted to see her and like her so much. Express that and forget about the serious "we must immediately be in a serious relationship" kind of approach.


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