need advice

PTH2009

ok so im out of a relationship about a month now and need advice on how to move on.

Im slowly starting to come to terms that the ex hates me and her friends do too. I cant go to a certain club in town cause the ex and her friends go there.

i work weekend nights (most of the time anyway) and always go to pubs on my own after work and have a few drinks and sometimes i get the druken cofidence to go to a nite club but i never go up to girls and try and chat them up.

I knw all the mistakes i made in this relationship and i want to find someone to prove how much of a good guy i am. Are they any decent dating sites online that are easy enough to meet girls.

Im 23 now and i want to start to settle down (i knw im young but people my age have kids and they seem happy enogh and i would love to have a child)

Advice please ??

Roisy7

A baby???!!!!! I'm the same age as you and the last thing I want is a baby! You need to be in the right place financially, emotionally etc and you need to be in a solid, stable relationship.

It's only been a month, chill out and take your time... How do you know the ex hates you? Not going to the same club is quite immature tbh, Ireland's small and ye will bump into each other, may as well get it over with.

Chill out, relax, and don't mention the b-word to any girl you meet. Not all women are broody you know!

Stavro Mueller

I remember you from other threads in here. From what I've read, you don't sound like someone who's in any fit state to be in a relationship. Go sort your own head out first before you even think about dating. A girlfriend isn't going to be the magic bullet that solves your problems.

Forever Hopeful

Op, l too remember your posts and I will reiterate the advice I have given before. You need guidance from your family and develop friendships.
23 is very young to want to settle down and the 33 year old and 43 year old you will be very different.
You are looking for a silver bullet to solve your personal problems but no woman will stay with you until you work on yourself and mature. You will end up in a vicious cycle unless you seek help.
Do you have friends? Family nearby? Spend time with them, talk to them. You can't see it but everyone who has responded to any if your posts have all said the same thing. We cannot all be wrong!

Taltos

PTH2009 - I really dislike having to do this and please accept that I am only doing this in your best interests but having reviewed this thread as well as a number of your other threads in PI/RI I have to admit that we cannot help you here.

Our best recommendation is to please seek professional help.
Please do not open another thread in this forum, we will close them and if you continue to post we will remove your posting rights.

I know this seems harsh, but the advice we gave you here last year on your issues and the course of action still stand. No-one here is qualified to help you and that is OK, sometimes you need to ask the professionals for some guidance.

Thanks
Taltos