Dont know how to proceed

LegacyUser · 29-01-2013 9:37pm #1

Hi I dont know if I can fully explain this but here goes.

Background: Mid 30's never had a gf, basically outging with females etc at work but when it comes to chatting up/approaching women i fancy deer in headlights.

So basically girl in local area that i never talked too when younger. Fancied saw her out loads of times when younger but I was like a ghost to her. Fast forward years of never seeing (never even friends/aquaintences, just to clarify) so out over the Xmas saw her in a group of her friends in a bar. Me and mate moved on thought no more about it, few bars later she appears with friends in same bar. I was standing alone friend at bar she moves from her group and kinds of checks me out. Few months earlier saw her form afar pushing pram with other kid in tow and some dude walking with her. So in the moment in my mind she was taken but a facebook check revealed they might have been her sis kids. So in the moment I took no notice and she left i was a bit steamed at this point also but not too drunk so good perspective.

Few days later analysed the situation and copped she may have been displaying interest in me. Unrelated to this set up a/c on Plenty of Fish. Put up public pic and away I went did a search and whom did I see but the girls profile. So plucked up courage sent general greeting mail and got no reply at all. Checked if she had been online was and at same time as no reply. 2 weeks later out again saw her she stared again and walked away before I could react. So am I reading this all wrong I definately thought she was giving me the eye.

Should I send her another email on POF? (just to clarify not stalking her online but find the situation strange only one mail sent on POF).
Should I chance it in real life or have I blown it?
A different perspective would be welcome thanks.(especially female)