Too much sex?

LegacyUser

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We laugh, cry, talk, listen and generally have an all-round great time together. Nauseating as it sounds, we just hit it off from the start and 18 months later I can honestly say I love him more than ever and feel very loved by him in return.

We moved in together 2 months ago and (apart from him leaving his football gear everywhere )we couldn't be happier -so far, so good! However, there are days when we just can't keep our hands off each other and find ourselves having sex every day, at least once a day, often twice and maybe even more when we have time at the weekends. Is this too much or even something I should be concerned about?

I suppose Im just wondering if this is a phase that all couples go through or are we likely to always stay so physically attracted to each other

LegacyUser

You have nothing to worry about. It's healthy to have sex everyday as long as both of you are enjoying it. Just enjoy it for now as this won't last forever.

judgefudge

Just enjoy it! Jaysus

CianRyan

Jealous.

shalalala

Jenny456 wrote: »

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We laugh, cry, talk, listen and generally have an all-round great time together. Nauseating as it sounds, we just hit it off from the start and 18 months later I can honestly say I love him more than ever and feel very loved by him in return.

We moved in together 2 months ago and (apart from him leaving his football gear everywhere )we couldn't be happier -so far, so good! However, there are days when we just can't keep our hands off each other and find ourselves having sex every day, at least once a day, often twice and maybe even more when we have time at the weekends. Is this too much or even something I should be concerned about?

I suppose Im just wondering if this is a phase that all couples go through or are we likely to always stay so physically attracted to each other

OP. Don't worry about it! Enjoy it! It might ease off after a while but it is lovely that you two enjoy each other so much.

PrincessPreach

How is that possibly a problem? Just enjoy it ffs

Meauldsegosha

Enjoy it OP don't worry about problems that don't exist.

LegacyUser

No I'm the same with my boyfriend. We still do other things and have great talks and fun together.

Holsten

You shouldn't be concerned at all.

It's normal.

Overheal

Holsten wrote: »

It's normal.

I wish..

saiint

its not normal
but its very healty once you both like it
enjoy it while it lasts (dont mean it in a bad way but as you get older couples tend to have sex once a month let alone every day haha) but nothing to worry about just shows you both have a nice healty relationship

Hardonraging

Some interesting answer's here today i see ..

It will come down to a few factor's age, sex drive, and of course enjoyment, if you are both young, 20 - 30's it's perfectly normal, sex drive also comes in to it, if both have a high sex drive then in turn you'll engage in it more often if possible, i.e at weekends.

And it sounds as if there's no issues with enjoyment, as other's said, enjoy yourselves, it wont always last, due to life getting in the way..

ibarelycare

There's no such thing as "normal" when it comes to relationships. Some couples have lots of sex, some don't. Sometimes it ebbs and flows. I don't live with my boyfriend but we see each other 4/5 days a week. Sometimes we'll be at it every time we see each other, twice some days! Other times we'll be content with twice a week. As others said, there's really no problem here or nothing to question.

sffc

OP - there's a difference between normal and common. I think while your frequent sex isn't common it's perfectly normal. Sex drive is seldom a problem in a relationship while it's mutually high or low.
One more thing - forty something's and older can have frequent enjoyable sex too fellow posters .... again it's maybe not quite as common but definetly normal! !!

Jen Pigs Fly

I see mine maybe 2/3 days a week due to me working and him in college mot days we meet up we're at it 3/4 times a day (morning to night) we talk have a laugh and just send the time together alone as some weeks we don't get to see each other we make the most of what we have.

We would be like you OP if we vied together sex 1/2 times a day everyday (we both have high sex drives)

I think it's completely normal

Cupcake_Crisis

You just moved in together, you're in the honeymoon period, bloody well enjoy it while it lasts before life gets in the way!

danslevent

If this all the "problems" you have in life op, you're lucky! Enjoy

Taltos

As the advice is resoundingly of the same nature we are closing this thread.