How Often Do You Go Out?

Neadine

How often do you go out, to pubs, clubs, etc?
I'm in my 30's and my social life has got rather stale to say the very least about it. There was a time I was out 2 nights pretty much every weekend and maybe movies or dinner during the week, I'm sure I also had far more of a disposable income at the time too.
I haven't been out for drinks in ages, one night before Christmas, go for dinner from time to time, and a very odd gig or show.
Is my life really boring?? (Contrast and compare!)

Where To

I come home stinking of alcohol, piss and vomit most nights.:)

endacl

Neadine wrote: »

How often do you go out, to pubs, clubs, etc?
I'm in my 30's and my social life has got rather stale to say the very least about it. There was a time I was out 2 nights pretty much every weekend and maybe movies or dinner during the week, I'm sure I also had far more of a disposable income at the time too.
I haven't been out for drinks in ages, one night before Christmas, go for dinner from time to time, and a very odd gig or show.
Is my life really boring?? (Contrast and compare!)

Not at all. If your life is boring, mine must be to. That can't be the case...

Neadine

Where To wrote: »

I come home stinking of alcohol, piss and vomit most nights.:)

Well, that sounds... wonderful, I'm sure!

dodderangler

As often as she lets me



Not that much tbh

endacl

Where To wrote: »

I come home stinking of alcohol, piss and vomit most nights.:)

You need a new job. Seriously.

Ihatecuddles-old

Once a month, probably less.

Neadine

endacl wrote: »

Not at all. If your life is boring, mine must be to. That can't be the case...

So, this is normal. Imagine the social life I'm not going to have in my 40's, can't wait for that excitement! :rolleyes:

admiralofthefleet

once, possibly twice a month

endacl

Neadine wrote: »

So, this is normal. Imagine the social life I'm not going to have in my 40's, can't wait for that excitement! :rolleyes:

I'll be hitting 40 next September. I'll let you know.

Neadine

endacl wrote: »

I'll be hitting 40 next September. I'll let you know.

Excellent, you're a few years ahead of me, but I can't wait for you to share all the wisdom and excitement with me.
40 is the new 20, so it could be wild!

McChubbin

AH Answer: When they unlock the attic.
Real answer: Whenever I have the money, which is rare. I usually have to plan things in advance by about a week or two.

Way too often. Most weekends anyway.

Ruudi_Mentari

For those winding down there are others for whom it can only increase... my 40s are gonna be hectic

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

When you hit your 30s, it's not abotu what you do it;s abotu who you do it with. Kinda like sex. "Way too often" is the way, I believe, a wise woman once put it.

Witchie

Out or Out OUT?

Never go to niteclubs anymore coz the ones in our town are crap unless you are on the pull.

Pub usually at least one night of the weekend. Generally a friday and a sunday night but this weekend it will prob be Fri and Sat as my mates have a girls nite out planned for Sat. Since am off the drink at the mo they will be a more sober affair for me.

Oh and I will also be 40 in September. Since I was about 16 I dont think I have sat in for more than 2 weeks in a row. Even when was pregnant would go out but obviously not drink.

I am a sociable person who luckily has a good group of friends so hitting the local for a night of laughs is usually on the cards.

HelpImAlive

Once or twice a week usually.. I'm a student though

Kichote

Neadine wrote: »

So, this is normal. Imagine the social life I'm not going to have in my 40's, can't wait for that excitement! :rolleyes:

Bring back the olden days when all men over that age spent the whole day in an old man's pub.

Da Shins Kelly

About 2-3 times a week. Spending too much money.

mackg

Last two weeks were two nights and out once a week since Christmas I'd say. First time having a bit of money in a while so might as well make the most of it.

Neadine

Kichote wrote: »

Bring back the olden days when all men over that age spent the whole day in an old man's pub.

Excuse me, but I'm very much female.

endacl

Kichote wrote: »

Bring back the olden days when all men over that age spent the whole day in an old man's pub.

Old man pubs are the new young man's pubs.

Neadine

Witchie wrote: »

Out or Out OUT?

Never go to niteclubs anymore coz the ones in our town are crap unless you are on the pull.

Pub usually at least one night of the weekend. Generally a friday and a sunday night but this weekend it will prob be Fri and Sat as my mates have a girls nite out planned for Sat. Since am off the drink at the mo they will be a more sober affair for me.

Oh and I will also be 40 in September. Since I was about 16 I dont think I have sat in for more than 2 weeks in a row. Even when was pregnant would go out but obviously not drink.

I am a sociable person who luckily has a good group of friends so hitting the local for a night of laughs is usually on the cards.

Oh my god, haven't heard the out or out out reference in so long, brings back....
I rarely go out any more, never mind out out.

Hersheys

After work pints on a Friday, mad one every 2 months or so. Rarely do dinner or cinema. The odd gig. But regular enough matches & pints before/during/after. Pints after playing a match... Maybe I've a problem

endacl

Hersheys wrote: »

Pints after playing a match... Maybe I've a problem

Switch to pints before. You can run them off over 90 minutes. Guilt free pints.

Witchie

Neadine wrote: »

Oh my god, haven't heard the out or out out reference in so long, brings back....
I rarely go out any more, never mind out out.

Was wondering if someone would pick up on that!

Novella

To a pub or club? Pretty much every weekend.

Other than that, go out for lunch or maybe to the cinema once or twice a week.

Neadine

Witchie wrote: »

Was wondering if someone would pick up on that!

Well, in the case of my circle of friends going out didn't require much planning or advance notice, but going out out required an all day preparation session!

Hersheys

endacl wrote: »

Switch to pints before. You can run them off over 90 minutes. Guilt free pints.

Would certainly make for interesting scrums

handbagmad

Dont go out much at all. Lost complete interest in the pub/club scene. Used to go out 2-3times a week up till about 4years ago.
Much rather going to someones house for a few beers or just chilling at home.

Last time i was in a pub was probably november

Neadine

Hersheys wrote: »

Would certainly make for interesting scrums

If you went for pre match pints would you actually make it to the match?

Eathrin

Twice a week, sometimes more, sometimes less.

1ZRed

Usually every Friday and Saturday, though I often go Thursday through Sunday

Stheno

Cutting down at the minute, maybe once a fortnight for some food and a couple of drinks?

Neadine

Think I maybe need to do something to improve my social life.

starviewadams

Go out in town once a month,at a push these days.

Late 20's now,friends who haven't emigrated are loved up so it's usually only when one of them is ''allowed'' out.Went through a phase of going out by myself over the summer,which was surprisingly okay ladies wise, but I just couldn't really be bothered making the effort anymore.

Might have a few pints on a Saturday afternoon in my local if I need to get out of the house for a while.

1ZRed

endacl wrote: »

Switch to pints before. You can run them off over 90 minutes. Guilt free pints.

I never feel guilty drinking pints

endacl

Neadine wrote: »

If you went for pre match pints would you actually make it to the match?

And would you care?

irish son

Go to pub/nightclub most weekends, sure what else would you be at.

Neadine

endacl wrote: »

And would you care?

Nope, not in the least.

Hersheys

It's a proven fact that I'm a better rugby player after a few pints so I would show up. The ref mightn't like me tho!

Richard Hillman

Maybe once a month or so. I genuinely prefer sitting at home alone and having a couple of beers whilst watching tv.

Neadine

Richard Hillman wrote: »

Maybe once a month or so. I genuinely prefer sitting at home alone and having a couple of beers whilst watching tv.

You may be my male alter ego!!