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Nervous personality Need advice

  • 23-01-2013 5:03pm
    #1
    ThurlesLad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭


    Hi everyone , I need some advice on something !


    I am 17 . Theres a person at school In my year Group I think is really good looking and seems nice . I heard they think the same for me too . There not in my classes but I see them around a lot . I would really like to talk to her and get to know her but I am such a nervous and shy person . I am really outgoing and chatty with people I am familiar with but if its someone I don't know I would be too nervous to even make eye contact . I feel this really holds me back . What should i do ? Just talk to them ? Even if I know they feel the same I am still cagy and nervous .

    I would really love some advice and help , thanks very much


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  • #2
    dannyc31
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 309 ✭✭dannyc31


    hi OP. is there anyway you can create a senario where this girl and your good friends are all in a social situation together? that way you have the crutch of your friends there and you are not gonna be as nervous, you at least have an in then and maybe indirectly can start striking up some conversation with her. it also may reveal some things you two have in common which in turn will make you naturally relax more around her and so talking to her will become easier.

    also just remember people are just people, doesnt matter whether you know em or not and many of us have the same fears an anxieties as yourself so there should be no reason for you to feel this is something to be ashamed of or fearful of.


  • #3
    ThurlesLad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭ThurlesLad


    dannyc31 wrote: »
    hi OP. is there anyway you can create a senario where this girl and your good friends are all in a social situation together? that way you have the crutch of your friends there and you are not gonna be as nervous, you at least have an in then and maybe indirectly can start striking up some conversation with her. it also may reveal some things you two have in common which in turn will make you naturally relax more around her and so talking to her will become easier.

    also just remember people are just people, doesnt matter whether you know em or not and many of us have the same fears an anxieties as yourself so there should be no reason for you to feel this is something to be ashamed of or fearful of.


    Hi , maybe , if I ask them there is a possibility but I don't know if they are familiar with her friends . Thats true I suppose were only human at the end of the day , I have no reason to be hesitant or shy but its just the way I've always been


  • #4
    ThurlesLad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭ThurlesLad


    Does anyone have any further advice ? It would be much appreciated


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