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Jealousy question advice needed from a woman

  • 21-01-2013 06:19PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Aye so I need a bit of advice. There's this woman I've grown to really like and at first I thought she liked me back but hey who really knows these things unless you ask her right? But anyway lately shes become very flirty with 2 of my mates, helping them out whenever she can and ignoring me most of the time.

    My question to all the lady's here from their own experience is, is she doing this to make me jealous and play with my head or is this her way of telling me she doesn't like me?


Comments

  • #2
    judgefudge
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 915 ✭✭✭judgefudge


    Is she actually being flirty? Or is she just being friendly and helping them out? Because in my experience some men can confuse those two things!

    I would just focus on how she's treating you and act accordingly. Ignore the others.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ah I'm just gonna chalk it up as a don't like and move myself on. I never let a woman get into my head like this. I'm just being an idiot right now.


  • #4
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    whatsherdeal wrote: »
    is she doing this to make me jealous and play with my head or is this her way of telling me she doesn't like me?

    Would you really want to be with someone who is capable of playing with your head like that? No one needs head wreck, especially at the start.


  • #5
    sffc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 433 ✭✭sffc


    Only for the fact that you describe this female as a "woman " I'd swear you were a shy 16yrold OP! !!
    Forget about the other two and ask her out asap. It doesn't have to be a fancy date ... just a date. You're a big boy now - act like one!

    NB: Regret is way worse than rejection ;)


  • #6
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Whether she's intentionally playing games with you or you're just interpreting it as such because your judgement is clouded is almost irrelevant. If she's messing with your head this much before a relationship has even begun your head will be melted if it ever gets off the ground if that's how you're thinking.


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