I need a womans opinion/ any opinion

corkfellow

Hi, hope I can get some feedback on the situation I’m in. I met this girl on a night out in Dublin back in December. Got on very well from the get go and ended up going back to her place. Ended up with abit of kissing etc but nothing full on which I didn’t mind at all.

I then got her number and gave her a few texts, we seemed to be getting on well so after xmas we met up had a nice dinner had a bit of walk, shared a kiss and then went into town for a few drinks. We got on very well and had a good laugh. she invited me back hers but again abit of kissing and cuddling which again I didn’t mind thinking that the girl has standards and that she didn’t want to rush things. Again which I liked.

We had decided to meet up again the following wknd where we spent the day together afterwards I cooked her dinner watch TV before dropping her home and getting a kiss goodnight. we agreed we would meet up again the following wknd but unfortunately a relative of hers got sick so she couldn’t meet up at the last minute which I totally understand. But then she txt apologising for the late notice of cancellation and said she cant get into anything serious at the moment and take care!

This has left me very confused as to what exactly she wants? she is good looking, a great laugh and we were getting on well but need a woman’s opinion as what to do next??

rainbow kirby

Threads asking specifically for female opinion are not allowed under the tLL charter. Since your thread seems like more of a relationship issue, I have moved it to RI.

corkfellow

Thats why i said womans opinion/ any opinion...... cheers for moving it

ElleEm

There is nothing you can do, OP. She was clear in saying that she can't get into anything serious right now. That could be due to a number of things- she may not feel a spark between you, she may be too caught up in family stuff, she may have met someone else, etc.

You could text her saying that it's a pity as you liked her/ saw a future, whatever, but be prepared for the brush off.

It is unfortunate as you clearly liked her, but it's the way the dating game goes.

RossFixxxed

You could give her a call and say you really like her would she reconsider.

Or leave it go.

Seems like she isn't interested and is being nice / non commital about it. Time to move on tbh.

Big Bag of Chips

OP, as per the site rules you are not permitted to open the same thread across different boards.

As you already have this thread going in After Hours, I will lock it here.

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I will lock it here, and if you get it sorted you can PM any of the PI Mods to reopen it for you.

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Thanks,
Big Bag of Chips