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  • 16-01-2013 7:11pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4


    okay,,i met this girl ,i got her number and we texted constantly for 5 days,until we kinda broke it off,then a week later i text her just to be friendly cause we didnt fight or anything and i thought we cud be friends,,she said she missed me and well i missed her too,we texted constantly,i asked her on a date and she said ya straight away,,first date went perfect,we just really really liked eachother and the texting was just non stop between us,,2nd date was perfect again,,we shifted and just had so much fun,,then we had a bit of a fight and decided to leave eachother,,an hour after we broke it off i text just saying it was so nice to meet her and how great it was,,she text back saying lets meet again the next day just to see if there is chemistry..i agreed and we met,and we just really fell for eachother,,that was just before christmas,and we txted constantly through christmas,,but it was 3 weeks since we last saw eachother and we felt kind of far from eachother,,we both said we really really liked eachother before christmas and during but we kinda grew apart and didnt like eachother as much as we did

    heres my problem,,that was a week and a half ago and the last message i got from her was "thank you so much for being so sweet to me,you thought me that not all men are bad" ,,and i miss her but obviously dont know if she feels the same way,,, should i just leave it be and move on,,or should i text her,,,if so wtf should i say???

    advise would be greatly appreciated and thank you if you read and answered this,,


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 915 ✭✭✭judgefudge


    So.... Ok... Just text her or ring her or something. If you still like her. I'm a bit confused as to what the problem is, if you both said you like each other?

    You sound young. Give her a ring and ask her out!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 309 ✭✭dannyc31


    this texting non stop might seem like a positive thing but its actually doing you no favours. you are probably coming across as a really nice guy but a little stand offish. this is gonna result in you getting the "look you're a really nice guy, but i'm looking for something else" translation you are too nice.

    my advice take the bull by the horns, forget the texting ring her up and take her out for dinner, something nice and spontaneous like that will impress her and should get her interested again. then just start phone conversation there after rather than texting. as i mentioned before women like when men are in contact i.e they need to feel you are closer than just random cold texting no matter how sweet you come across while texting. this is what i've been told by women in my life anyway so i believe them.

    best of luck.


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