Trans-thoughts

Johnboy45 · 08-01-2013 11:30pm #1

I'm a straight, happy guy. Recently i've been more and more attracted to transgendered people. I'm not gay although the thoughts of a girl with a penis greatly excites me. Only if they are in the dominant position tho. Does anyone know what this means or feel like this?

Annasopra · 09-01-2013 5:14pm

I don't know much about this at all

I asked another trans person and this is a paraphrasal of the reply I got.

Lots of people are attracted to transgender people. it reads like he has a sexual fantasy about being topped by a transgender woman, which is a fairly common kink/sexual interest. I'd just say to him that it's perfectly normal, absolutely loads of straight guys have that interest, but that there's probably not too many trans girls who are comfortable enough to be dominant.

Lyaiera · 09-01-2013 6:10pm

mango salsa wrote: »

but that there's probably not too many trans girls who are comfortable enough to be dominant.

I know of a few who would comfortable enough pegging a guy. Although it does raise questions of comfort with "male" anatomy and about being dominant in a male versus female manner. As well as whether the woman is straight, gay or whatever.

The bigger problem I see with it is that often in these circumstances trans women are seen as sexual objects rather than people. It's a sexual kink for the person getting pegged and not a relationship with the trans woman of which sex is a part.

I do e-know one person who is engaged to a woman but still has fantasies about getting pegged by a trans woman. He's a total boss when it comes to trans women though. He's a big advocate of trans rights and doesn't objectify trans women. He'd be happy to have a relationship with a trans woman and doesn't see his kink as a shameful secret necessitating secretive behaviour behind closed doors.

Hamhide · 11-01-2013 6:39pm

most guys think about sex every what is it now, 11 seconds? thats 7 seconds every gay man! seriously though,when a guy thinks about it that often he must fantasize an aweful lot.its normal these days to think about a whole load of positions and veriables.Some guys are just plain creepy with the ''I want a girl with a d1ck to f*ck me!'' which as i'm sure most trans girls like myself come across in their lives.But mostly its just a harmless normal and quite healthy fantasy.As long as you dont see it as too novel or just taking the piss then most trans gals wouldnt really mind enlightening a curious guy.