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Is it ok to be seeing someone who has a child

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  • 02-01-2013 12:35pm
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    trxking
    Closed Accounts Posts: 39 ✭


    and still in a relationship but there not even having *** just staying together for the kids sake..and unhappy lol any advice

    is it wrong???


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    Mint Sauce
    Registered Users Posts: 29,294 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    trxking wrote: »
    and still in a relationship but there not even having *** just staying together for the kids sake..and unhappy lol any advice

    is it wrong???

    I was saying yes on just seeing the title. Then I seen your post. No its not okay.


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    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    You had to ask, you know its wrong.


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    #4
    bluecode
    Closed Accounts Posts: 794 ✭✭✭bluecode


    Depends on your personal moral stance. But my big question is why you would want to complicate your life that way? It can only end badly. Run away fast!

    Really there are plenty of single people with and without kids. Getting involved in that scenario and you'll be rapidly living in a bad soap opera.


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    #5
    biko
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    Only if you intend to marry him.


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    #6
    Leftist
    Registered Users Posts: 2,230 ✭✭✭Leftist


    yes it's grand, what could be possibly be wrong about breaking up a family.


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    FloatingVoter
    Registered Users Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Right, so he's in a miserable marriage, can't leave the missus because of the kid and is having it off with you. How bloody original. Dump it and move on.


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    super_furry
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    Probably, you'll both be miserable and it'll be a ****ty environment for a kid.


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    #9
    connundrum
    Registered Users Posts: 5,563 ✭✭✭connundrum


    What would Jesus say?


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    Dravokivich
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    trxking wrote: »
    unhappy lol

    Never thought I'd ever see those two together.


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    kneemos
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    connundrum wrote: »
    What would Jesus say?

    Go forth and multiply.


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    Sauve
    Registered Users Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    If the person you're seeing has told their spouse that they're in a relationship with you and all is well there, then go right ahead.
    If not, ask yourself why. There's your answer.


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    humanji
    Registered Users Posts: 19,976 ✭✭✭✭humanji


    I'm locking this as it's bound to go horribly wrong here. OP, try the Personal Issues forum where you'll get answer without the jokes.


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