Need a bit of advice

LegacyUser

Hey guys, feeling a little sorry for myself this year I guess. I moved home over a year ago due to finances ect after college. Left all my close friends behind and a social life I loved. I tried to get involved here at home, but the friends thing here didnt really work out and its been so hard this year. really lonely tbh. Ive seen my best and close friends when I travelled to visit, but its been straining.

anyway another girl who was friends with my closest friends but not with me has pretty much exiled me from the group, leaves me out and stuff. I know it sounds petty and it shouldnt affect me, but it absolutely kills me that the other are so fond of her. unfortunately she's not openly hostile to me in front of them so it looks like Im the one who has issues with her.

now Im spending new years at home this yr. and my friends went to this girls home beforehand for the weekend. it wasnt a secret or anything but I guess I just feel upset at how close they are to her. I know its juvenile by the way, but its horrible. My friends are aware of this, but I dont expect them not drop friends just because I dont like them and vica versa. Im not sure what Im asking here, I guess I just need some encouragement ect. some advice. Im actually moving back soon, just scared I wont fit in now.

greenteaicedtea

Do you know what their plans are, and go along anyhow despite this one person who dislikes you? Why should she dictate who you get to spend time with?

Talk to your other friends, ask where they're going, and show up. Just don't talk to the girl who doesn't like you. I don't know if that will work for you or not, it seems awful to have to lose your friends because of one person. Maybe if you just carry on as normal with your friends, she may back off.

LegacyUser

Op here. Thanks for the reply. well it was this weekend just gone and it was this girls house, so I definately would not show up. I wasnt invited. Which is understandable.

R.D. aka MR.D

Why doesn't this girl like you?