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I need to change

  • 23-12-2012 3:07pm
    #1
    Amprodude
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,034 ✭✭✭


    Ok basically in having thoughts about myself recently. I am 26 y/o male and i always have negative thoughts about myself. I had a fight with one of my best friends recently, it was my fault, I met him out then one night and we had few words and he left me after that. He avoided contact with me. I got badly drunk after that and then texted him telling him why he was avoiding me and was he ok?There was no reply since. Now in very upset and feel like shi*e. Anyway the reason we had a fight was that i am over sensitive to slagging and people that criticise me and he wad doing a bit of that and i got thick and ignored him. I was wrong and the one thing I want to change about myself in 2013 is to laugh a bit more about things and not be too sensitive about small things.


Comments

  • #2
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    These things happen on the way to maturity OP. You are getting there.


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Bit of a lame response, I suppose, OP, but - if you want to change, then change. Sit down and make a list of things you'd like to fix about yourself, then think of ways to change these things.


  • #4
    Ando's Saggy Bottom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,628 ✭✭✭Ando's Saggy Bottom


    The fact that you have identified something you'd like to change is half the battle. Have a little think as well about why you might be the way you are - why you are sensitive to a bit of slagging etc. Understanding what caused us to be a certain way is the first step to growth and change IMO. It can take time but its not a race either. Be kind to yourself snd persevere.


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