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Advice needed

  • 19-12-2012 10:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well, I am a twenty one year old female who has no friends or relationship or achievements.
    I have joined things/gone on nights out/gone places but always feel like an outsider with people and cliques and don't feel I belong - I make alot of effort with people - I have done ever since I was young but I've always felt like an outsider or I just couldn't relate to them completely...

    Left college this year and not one college "friend" noticed or rang/texted me. I have no friends in my hometown as everyone has moved forward.

    I can't make relationships with guys work - my relationships last about two months and they always see someone better come along. I have never been the leading lady..

    I joined clubs in college etc before leaving college and I am quite friendly but still I can't seem to captivate/keep friends or guys.

    My parents are losing patience with me and I can tell they are not as proud as they thought they would be. At 21 I am sure they'd expect so much better...
    I am repeating the LC for my dream course but I feel as if I have left them and myself down.
    I feel everybody I used to know has moved on and are now better whereas I am stuck behind and not accountable or cared about.
    I am horrendously lonely in my life for the last year or two. I have no idea how it all went wrong to be honest.....

    I need some advice please


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