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  • 28-11-2012 8:41pm
    #1
    fruslady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭


    Hey guys ! ...
    K im not too sure if this is the right place to put this thread but basically .. myself and my friend are after booking a shopping trip to Dublin in the next few weekends ...
    BUT my fiance had history with this woman and a child was the result of this (he still doesnt know if he is the father or not) and hasnt seen them for years .. (I have also avoided going to the town because i dont want confrontation about them) but im after hearing from another source that this woman may be going on this trip also ...
    Now it is a bus up to Dublin and an overnight stay in the hotel , with dinner and everythin included but it will be very awkward to say the least if she is there ...
    Does anyone have any advice on how to find out if she is going !? ... or any advice at all i would greatly appreciate it ! :-)


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  • #2
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    As whoever is organizing the trip if this woman is going, or failing that ask someone you know is a friend of this woman if she is going. Find out from this "other source" if this is definitely true or not. That's about all you can do. If you want to be doubly certain then just cancel this trip.


  • #3
    ElleEm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    Just ask someone that is going if she is.

    On a side note, your fiance may be a dad.... is this not something you should both be interested in investigating?


  • #4
    fruslady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭fruslady


    Its a toughie but thats all i can do i suppose , why is life so bloody complicated ! ...


  • #5
    fruslady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭fruslady


    It happened 10 years ago and when my fiance was told he said he would stand by her and move in with her (i even heard this from her mouth because she was in the same gang as us when we were younger) but she had none of it and told him she wanted nothing to do with him.. and she was also sleeping with a married man at the same time ... so she didnt know herself im thinking ... so then she never rang / wrote or contacted him... until of course we built a house 3 years ago ... she was on a social netwrking site to me ... saying she knew we were together and would we all meet up ... quiet strange after 10 years .. she is married and has another child so confusing the 10 year old child is an understatement ...


  • #6
    curlzy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,708 ✭✭✭curlzy


    fruslady wrote: »
    she was on a social netwrking site to me ... saying she knew we were together and would we all meet up ... quiet strange after 10 years .. she is married and has another child so confusing the 10 year old child is an understatement ...

    Why did you not meet? Not cool on that child at all. S/he is the innocent party here and has a right to know who his/her Dad is.


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  • #7
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP - as you already have a thread open I am closing this one.

    Per our charter please do not post multiple threads to PI/RI in a short space of time.

    Taltos


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