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Dumped for being a Creep

  • 23-11-2012 2:01pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Recently I went out on a night out with my friends and my girlfriend who I'm very much in love with. Now we all had quite a lot to drink and many of us are missing parts of the night in our own minds. Yesterday my girlfriend called me over and dumped me because in the club I supposedly was chatting up her friend and asked her for her number. Then when we got back to my girlfriend’s house I asked a different person for the same number. Now nobody has any recollection of this it is just two girls saying so. Now I haven't denied it because I don't know if it is true or not.

    My gf had trust issues against me that she overcame and allowed us to enter a very happy open relationship due to the fact that I kissed another girl while dating my ex. However as I had cheated on my ex-girlfriend in a poisonous relationship she feels she now has grounds not to trust me and can no longer be a part of this relationship. However I would never do this to her but she now has cause to believe I would.

    Last night my gf (now ex) ran into the other ex and they discussed me in detail. My ex has made up horrible things about me to my most recent girlfriend and when I deny them she says she has no reason to trust or believe me.

    I suppose I don’t even know what I’m looking for on this thing, just to get it off my chest. It’s unfortunate that it has come to this because only the night before we were talking about our long term plans for the future together.


Comments

  • #2
    Ellsbells
    Closed Accounts Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Ellsbells


    Why would two people lie about that? Seems strange to me that they would. if you drank so much that you cant remember part of the night then its highly likely you were trying to get this girls number, which is code to me for hit on her.

    then on top of that your ex also tells lies about you????

    Its very strange but there is nothing you can do.


  • #3
    curlzy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,708 ✭✭✭curlzy


    I agree with Ellsbells, it seems strange that 2 people would lie.

    Stop drinking to the stage where you don't have any memory of what's happened, when people wake up after a black out they can be accused of rape, murder anything really. Learn a lesson and don't drink to that extent again.


  • #4
    seachto7
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,863 ✭✭✭seachto7


    If you were asking for numbers while you were drunk, would that mean you'd go off with someone else while you were drunk if the opportunity arose?


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