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Heather22

I have a problem and I wonder can anyone out there give me some advice?
I think I have falling in love with another girl at work she is beautiful I am 20 and she is a little older than me. I look forward to going to work just to see her and she is constantly on my mind. I have a boyfriend and we have a good sex life.
I am beginning to wonder am I bi sexual? I had previously kissed a girl in school but I put it down to being young and curious and I can't remember if I had enjoyed it. I think I would like to try it again but this time going a little further. Judging by the way she acts when we are alone I think she might be attracted to me also. I don't know if I should tell her how I feel about her I do know I will have to take some action.

castle

Well don't wait until you are 30 yrs old and then do something about your bi side if it exists at all, but let say it does then you could try this with someone else who you don't work with,as it would be less hassel . You might just have a woman crush which does not mean you want to play with a woman. Like some guys have man crush on say George Clooney (not me I swear)oh he so cute, sorry back to you, If you are bi then why not enjoy that side of you and your fellow might be open to this, there are swing sites which cater for your needs without the pressure, you could go to a party and watch others playing together and if you like it you can join in,(but you have to PM me the details lol, only kidding well not really, best of luck

Jupitermars

Hi there,

The fact that you say that you do know you have to do something about it means that you feel compelled to.

You could very well be bi, espescially as you are seem attracted to her and seem to be curious about exploring that sexual side of you.

I too once was in a relationship with a guy and we had a good sex life. But inevitably I was compelled to do something about my attraction to women. I finished with him and ended up dating some girls.

Some questions to ask yourself:

Have you ever thought in the past that you might be bi / gay?
Have you ever had crushes on girls before, or 'admired' them strongly?
Do you want to stay with your boyfriend, be faithful, and spend rest of your life with him?
do you ever have dreams about kissing women?haha that was the big give away for me!

All the best

Heather22

Hi
Thanks for your advice I am beginning to see things more clearly now.
I kissed another girl at the weekend we were both pretty drunk and it was a dare thing I really enjoyed it though and wanted more.
I've been seeing my boyfriend for around a year now I think we both see it as a casual thing. I can't see myself walking down the isle any day soon if ever.
Even though I would love to be with another girl and think about it all the time I am a bit apprehensive. I know it's silly I have no problem being naked in front of a man but no other girl has seen me naked.
I think I have a nice body but I am afraid I might get compared you know how some girls are. I know you are right about not getting involved with someone in work it's not a good idea.
I will have to try to forget about her but it won't be easy.
Thanks again

LegacyUser

well if you feel the vibes from her hell why not explore it a little more. but in the meantime you can explore your attraction to other ladies too