Feel terrible

LegacyUser

I feel absolutely crap. I went out two nights ago and got absolutely smashed. I was having great fun and banter with a guy I know from work (has a gf) and I, in my wrecked state, thought it would be funny to peck him on the lips at the bar. I have a long term bf.

I 100% do not fancy this guy nor was this kiss done in any sexual manner but I feel terrible. I don't know why I would do such a stupid thing. I feel like a horrible excuse for a human being.

Lorna123

My advice to you would be to just forget it ever happened and act normal in this guy's company. Don't go around feeling embarrassed or it will look like you fancied this guy. You could say casually in passing "gosh, I drank too much the other night, hope I didn't make a show of myself" and laugh it off.

tinkerbell

Using drink as an excuse for cheating on your boyfriend is unacceptable. I think you should (a) tell your boyfriend and (b) never get drunk again because clearly you do stupid things when drunk.

Bambii_

If it was just a peck, then I don't think you should mention it to your bf. Forget about it and take it as a lesson learned.

I get the impression you wouldn't do this if you were sober, and you acted like this because of alcohol. I suggest you don't drink as much.

Sunshineboo

tinkerbell wrote: »

Using drink as an excuse for cheating on your boyfriend is unacceptable. I think you should (a) tell your boyfriend and (b) never get drunk again because clearly you do stupid things when drunk.

A bit harsh. Ok you made a mistake but now you need to try forget about, it was a peck not a full blown kiss, I don't think there is any need to tell your boyfriend, there was no intent behind the kiss just a case of a few too many and overstepping the mark. Don't beat yourself up about it we are all human prone to making mistakes.

pcnoobie

a peck is still a peck though
if my gf done that on me id like to know....
all depends if you can live a lie i suppose , if i was you id tell him and explain to him what happened
a peck is still a kiss whether you fancie someone or not two lips still met
im sure the other guy who you gave this peck to is thinkin the same thing since he has a gf

Chara1001

Its likely the two of you are wishing it never happened...
Look if it really was a stupid mistake and there are no underlying issues in your relationship, then it's not going to do any good to tell him. it sounds like you're beating yourself up enough about it so just learn from how ****ty you feel now and don't ever let it happen again. I don't like the excuse of being drunk for doing stupid things, i think it tries to dilute responsibility. that said, your post could have been so much worse, i think you can just say that the lesson is learned!