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My Adele moment

  • 12-11-2012 9:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I lurk these forums a lot and now I just feel like ranting after what's happened. So forgive me! xD

    Early 20s guy here, and not out. So yeah, I stupidly started talking to another guy online who was in a similiar situationto me. I'm trying to get more comfortable with who it appears I truely am. The situation? He's from a different country and all our conversations have been online.

    It started out innocent enough like pen pals! Was just so nice to chat to someone who didn't know you, yet knew everything (if that makes sense?) We were both into the same things, relatively shy. Then after a while I think I started developing feelings for this guy, as weird and sad as that sounds! We could be honest with each other and have an awful lot in common.

    This past week he's not been online for our daily chats..etc I'm not going to lie, it did kind of stick out in my mind but I motored on and tried to get too worked up about it. Tonight he's after logging in and embarassingly my heart lit up!

    We caught up with each other and everything seemed normal. Then he drops the bomb..."Did I tell you I'm seeing someone?" The reason he was away was he was out staying with someone he met, from a friend. I played the "Oh my, I'm so happy for you, he's lucky" card but inside was ***ing bricks. He kind of went into what they had done and I again was happy for him. He kept saying it was still dating, nothing too serious, and that said person would be going off for three weeks away from him soon.

    Just then, after my silent pity party in my head, he said then "In the future, if you and I were single, I'd date you". Wtf does that mean then?!! He then went on to say he missed me since he's been away, started complimenting me again (looks etc.) and it's really confused me! I've no experience with really any of this kind of thing so decided to come here and vent.

    I know online relations can complicate things. But I know he's been in long distance relationships before. I just...am not sure where anyone stands anymore? Afterwards, we just carried on talking but I kept thinking "S**T, why did you just say that?"

    Meh, rant over. I'm off to go listen to some boppin' Adele tunes xD!


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