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Issues with girlfriend

  • 09-11-2012 3:02pm
    #1
    bobbaggio
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 213 ✭✭


    I am in kind of a similar situation, except for the fact that I didn't get bored with her and did everything for her. I think I was too available but I feel like after the L word is said, it is pretty much, do whatever you can to help, no matter what the cost and no more games. Turns out a few things happened, she backed off, I got worried, she backed off more, and now we are not on speaking terms as I went over there last saturday drunk and told her I was afraid I was losing her... she said that I had began to get to serious and she was scared etc.... now I am doing everything in my power to not contact her.....someone please reassure me that this is the right thing to be doing! I just want to say hello...


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  • #2
    msg11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭msg11


    bobbaggio wrote: »
    I am in kind of a similar situation, except for the fact that I didn't get bored with her and did everything for her. I think I was too available but I feel like after the L word is said, it is pretty much, do whatever you can to help, no matter what the cost and no more games. Turns out a few things happened, she backed off, I got worried, she backed off more, and now we are not on speaking terms as I went over there last saturday drunk and told her I was afraid I was losing her... she said that I had began to get to serious and she was scared etc.... now I am doing everything in my power to not contact her.....someone please reassure me that this is the right thing to be doing! I just want to say hello...

    Never really got the whole , it's getting to serious ? In that situation I would call it a day for a while, she knows the score. If she is interested she will get in touch about it, don't wait around on it get out there an be actively seeking or just having some fun with friends etc..


  • #3
    bobbaggio
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 213 ✭✭bobbaggio


    yeah, i know, another problem is thought, i bought her a present, something she really needed before we broke up and still intend on sending it.....what do you think? shoul i wait a couple of weeks?


  • #4
    bobbaggio
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 213 ✭✭bobbaggio


    another issue I am having is that, I bought her a present before we broke up, something she really needed, and it only arrived the other day, I have full intentions of sending it as it is hers, and that is the end of it! .... I was just wondering how long I should wait to send it....


  • #5
    msg11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭msg11


    Well if you are intent on sending it then just send it. TBH, there's no point in hanging onto something that is no use to you, so just send it on and leave it at that as I said don't be running around after her.


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