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Do I explain to him why not?

  • 04-11-2012 10:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    There is this perfect guy that is interested in me. I'm flattered yet so frustrated with myself that there is no spark my end. We get on great, have a laugh, gets on great with my family. Just every thing apart from no real attraction.

    A few months ago I did try and see if something would develop but sadly nothing did after a few weeks. He seems to be trying again as of late. I'm a nice person, so I don't do the ignoring to prove that I'm not interested yet I don't want to hurt his feelings by saying 'I am not interested in you'. There is no nice way of letting somebody down is there? Any suggestions? He's a sensitive soul.


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  • #2
    curlzy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,708 ✭✭✭curlzy


    Just be open and honest. Tell him that while he's a great guy unfortunately you just aren't feeling it. The more honest it is the better, so don't go making it needlessly complicated. At the end of the day trying to be with him when you feel this way would be much much worse so don't feel bad for telling the truth.


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