Did i do the right thing?

LegacyUser

Ive been seeing someone for 4/5 months now, and i really liked him alot. I wasnt sure at the start but over time grew to like him even more. It got to the stage where we'd meet up once a week and go out do whatever, but there was no contact during the week etc, and this kinda annoyed me, my head had been wrecked the last few weeks cue.. conversation about where we were at etc.

Basically he didnt want any kind of commitment isnt in a suitable place in his life for it and was just happy with the way things are and admitted going out kissing other people (i was doing the same). but I would of been happy to make a commitment to him.

I would defiantly of felt jealous if I saw him kiss someone else, he didnt think it would bother him too much if he saw me with someone else.

So we said we'd go our separate ways, more so me because i didnt think i could go on with it the way it was, and now im completely gutted
We could of left things the way they were and at least id have something whereas now I have nothing. It may not sound like it but we really like each other, are into each other and get on really well.

ash23

What you had with him meant short changing yourself and leaving yourself closed off from meeting someone who can give you what you want in full. So yes, you did the right thing.

LegacyUser

ash23 wrote: »

What you had with him meant short changing yourself and leaving yourself closed off from meeting someone who can give you what you want in full. So yes, you did the right thing.

Thanks ash23, had thought about that alright, even tho part of me says I could still meet someone else while seeing him, but I know thats probably a recipe for disaster!

Ah, its so hard to meet someone, so when u do its really tough to let go.

thanks again

Katgurl

Absolutely you did right thing. Never settle for an arrangement that leaves you feeling undervalued. You will get over him and you have kept your self esteem in tact. Well done.