Distance & frustration

LegacyUser

I've been relationship with a man who lived a few hours drive away for a year now. He was finishing up his studies when we got together, we saw each other as much as possible and he said he would move to where I live when he finished.

Over summer we didn't get to see each other much. He was very busy which I understood. He then told me he was considering taking a job even further away so our plans to live together were out the window.

I was upset by this, he felt I wasn't being supportive, we argued and he walked off in the middle of the conversation. He got back in touch after a week and said he didn't want us to break up. I told him I wanted a more solid relationship with more frequent contact and a future.

I suggested that I could move to where he is living even though I'm not sure its the best idea. His contract is temporary so he could end up anywhere after a few months. I only have a part time job where I am but its so difficult to find work anywhere I'm reluctant to give it up, especially since he might not be staying where he is.

I felt like there was an end in sight to the distance but now we're back to square one again.

Ellsbells

How can you be too busy to meet someone over the entire summer? He is not that pushed op it looks to me. I think you are just being held for his pleasure when he wants it. I would not be happy with that.

LegacyUser

We did meet up occasionally over summer but I did feel like I was getting lower on his list of priorities. I put it aside as him being busy though and decided to wait it out. Until he told me he was moving somewhere else.