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  • 22-10-2012 4:34pm
    #1
    PTH2009
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,456 ✭✭✭✭


    ok just a bit of advice. my life is in a bit of a termoil and i am struggling with it.

    Work- I got suspeded in work because i was too hungover and not able to serve the public. I knw it was wrong but i didnt plan on it happening I feel so ashamed and angry at myself for this. Advice ??.

    College- Im struggling in college with assignments and stuff and during a presentation i went compelty blank.

    Home- My mother got let go from her job and as im the only person employed in the house, my dad dont work. (with the situation in work, how longer will i be there).

    Relationship- My relationship is struggling because of the all the above things.

    Im in a rough place in my head and feel like exploding. Just want a bit of normallity back.


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  • #2
    looksee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,090 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    Its one of the laws of life that no-one ever really tells you about, that everything happens together. What you have to do now is kind of separate it out a bit and deal with one thing at a time.

    Work. Go in, apologise, grovel a bit (well quite a lot), swear it will never happen again - and make sure it doesn't. Of course if it has happened before then you really have problems, but do your best.

    College. Talk to your advisor/tutor/whoever and explain you are having a lot of personal problems and see if you can get an extension on some of the work - but then get on with it.

    The situation at home is divided between three of you, not just your problem. Have a conference and see what the money situation is going to be.

    Relationship - Well it depends on what sort of relationship. Is it a long term relationship with possibly children involved, or is it something more casual? Ask your partner to bear with you for a bit while you get your head together. If she(?) isn't prepared to give you a bit of space and support then maybe the relationship is not something to be too concerned about.

    Take it a step at a time, you'll get through it, good luck.


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