So Frightened

KaiserLu

I'm a young man who's been with my girlfriend for over a year now. We rarely argue and normally have a happy relationship. But lately I get the feeling that's she's sick of me. Before I went away on a business trip to Germany two weeks ago she couldn't get enough of me and when I returned was delighted to have seen me. But last Thursday, she stayed in mine and was in a serious mood. I asked what was wrong and she said nothing, she was just tired.

I left her to it on Friday, giving her some space and decided to give her a small present of her favourite sweets on Saturday to cheer her up. I stayed in hers and we had sex that night. We had dinner on Sunday but she was itching to get rid of me.

I called her from work today regarding a trip we had been planning and she was very non commital.



She's normally a and happy per son, but lately she seems down in who'she dumps.

I love her so much but I'm having difficulty eating and sleeping over this. Please help?

KaiserLu

KaiserLu wrote: »

I'm a young man who's been with my girlfriend for over a year now. We rarely argue and normally have a happy relationship. But lately I get the feeling that's she's sick of me. Before I went away on a business trip to Germany two weeks ago she couldn't get enough of me and when I returned was delighted to have seen me. But last Thursday, she stayed in mine and was in a serious mood. I asked what was wrong and she said nothing, she was just tired.

I left her to it on Friday, giving her some space and decided to give her a small present of her favourite sweets on Saturday to cheer her up. I stayed in hers and we had sex that night. We had dinner on Sunday but she was itching to get rid of me.

I called her from work today regarding a trip we had been planning and she was very non commital.



She's normally a and happy per son, but lately she seems down in who'she dumps.

I love her so much but I'm having difficulty eating and sleeping over this. Please help?

please excuse the spelling mistakes. The app for boards sucks.

Elmidena

Perhaps give her a bit more time to herself and let her get out of this slump she's in. It mightn't have anything to do with you at all--she could be hormonal, or stress at work, or pressure from family etc, so I wouldn't write the relationship off just yet. Cool it down for a couple of days and let her come to you when she's ready

DeltaWhite

Coming from a sometimes emotional woman - Leave her to it for a day or 2 if she has something to serious to say, she will say it! She may be just a little down in the dumps over something so I wouldnt freak out about it I get like that a lot and it could be over something stupid, or maybe no reason at all! Just those pesky hormones!

Ps.. real nice gesture with the sweets!

charlietheminxx

I think my perspective might help on this.

I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy. He's the best person to be around and really easy to talk to, but I find it very hard to lean on him when things are really bothering me. Not because he isn't supportive or understanding - he is both in spades - but because I just find it very hard to vocalise things that get me down sometimes. I was having a major work issue a couple of months ago that he knew about, but I didn't want to keep talking to him about it because at the end of the day, what could he do? Your girlfriend could be a little bit like me OP, because I know at times my bf might have felt like I was pushing him away.

Just mention you've noticed she seems a bit preoccupied, and let her know if there's anything on her mind that you're there to talk to. That way, if she wants to talk, she will. If it's about you, it gives her an opening to tell you. Don't let your imagination run riot and get the best of you though.