Your girlfriend's ex's penis

Gauss

This topic came up amongst a group of friends and I was surprised how most of us were a bit insecure about how we measured up to our girlfriend's exes. We actually all agreed we'd prefer that our girlfriend's exes had small penises.

Is this a common insecurity amongst men or are my friends and I a bit weird?

Stheno

I don't think unless you are very undersized in that area that it's something many women give thought to?

johnayo

I tend not to think too much about her ex's penis size. If it was that good, then why is she not still with him.:)

Knucklecracker

Misread the title, though it said "your girlfriends ex penis"

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The Big Red Button

Gauss wrote: »

This topic came up amongst a group of friends and I was surprised how most of us were a bit insecure about how we measured up to our girlfriend's exes. We actually all agreed we'd prefer that our girlfriend's exes had small penises.

Is this a common insecurity amongst men or are my friends and I a bit weird?

Honestly, yeah, I'd find it very odd if a boyfriend of mine put any significant amount of thought into this.

I can honestly say, I've never asked (or even wondered) about how big my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends' boobs were.

Why would I, like?

I wouldn't be in a relationship where physical attributes are the most important thing.

The way I'd see it is that she's his ex for a reason - I'm not in direct competition with her - so why would I care about her specifics?

I'd be quite unimpressed if I thought my boyfriend was comparing himself to my ex-boyfriends, too. In my opinon, it's stupid and irrelevant, in an adult relationship.

Stheno

chatterpillar wrote: »

I'd be quite unimpressed if I thought my boyfriend was comparing himself to my ex-boyfriends, too. In my opinon, it's stupid and irrelevant, in an adult relationship.

I'd suspect it's something some men suffer from, but you've answered the question, they are an ex, the person is with you now, so why wonder?

It's the same as asking if women think they are crappier in bed than their bf's ex?

Op, PI is for advice on a personal issue specifically, not a general discussion
Another forum may be more suitable

thanks