Everyone hates me

MC Homicidal Maniac

Everyone knows that one person that no one likes, in my life that's me. There's no point denying it anymore. I am a unlikable person. I always have been. I have never had a friend and am unable to make any kind of connection with other humans. I've tried over the years to make friends and be more social and whatnot but it doesn't work, ever. It happens so consistently that it's clearly my personality repulsing people. I know I'm ugly too so less people are gonna want to be my friend automatically but my personality really sucks too. My whole life has been pretty miserable and lonely for as long as I remember.

What should I do? I don't know what the correct reaction to this is.

charlietheminxx

OP we all feel bad about ourselves sometimes.

You seem pretty wound up about it now. try to calm down and think through things.

Have you really never had a friend? You say you're unable to connect to humans. In what way? Do you keep a distance between yourself and others?

Also, please bear in mind that looks are very little to do with making friends, so don't let that get you down too. You're probably in a bad state of mind and looking at every aspect of your self negatively right now.

MC Homicidal Maniac

charlietheminxx wrote: »

OP we all feel bad about ourselves sometimes.

You seem pretty wound up about it now. try to calm down and think through things.

Have you really never had a friend? You say you're unable to connect to humans. In what way? Do you keep a distance between yourself and others?

Also, please bear in mind that looks are very little to do with making friends, so don't let that get you down too. You're probably in a bad state of mind and looking at every aspect of your self negatively right now.

I've had people I thought were my friends but they either didn't like me and just didnt want to say it or they were only talking to me when no one else was available. No one has ever wanted to be around me when they had other options.

charlietheminxx

That sounds a little bit clouded. That can't be the case, or they never would have spent time with you at all. We will all be used at times, we will all use people at some point (whether we can admit it to ourselves or not). It's a big world out there, there are plenty of new people to meet that you might click better with.

Please don't lose hope.

MC Homicidal Maniac

I'd be a fool not to lose hope. I'm obviously not a likeable person. My life has always been like this, I'd I was a likeable person is have made a friend or something by now. It'd be very strange if I was likeable because I've been living an unlikable persons life. Instead I'm just some funny looking loser no one likes and avoids. People only use me, laugh at me and make me feel like ****. I suck and everyone DOES hate me. If you knew me irl you'd dislike me. It's been so consistent there's no other conclusions to come to.

RossFixxxed

You seem to have made up your mind on that. You are totally sure you are bad, and in your words 'suck'... It's a self fulfilling prophecy with that attitude mate. You need to wake up and see what you can do and change about it.

There is a big difference from 'Refreshing Honesty' and 'blunt and rude'
Take an interest in other people's interests.
Get out there and smile more.
Be very nice to a shopkeeper, see if you can make them smile.
Stop with the defeatist attitude, and at least be open to the POSSIBILITY you can turn this around.

If you are determined to be unlikeable that's fine, see ya.

Craptacular

What age range are you in OP?

What is it about your personality that you think people don't like?

MC Homicidal Maniac

Craptacular wrote: »

What age range are you in OP?

What is it about your personality that you think people don't like?

I'm 21. I don't know what it is about me everyone dislikes. I assume there's too much.

That guy that posted before you seems to dislike me, maybe he can shed some light on why that is?

Craptacular

So you're 21. That's very young to be ruling out the possibility of friends. Are you in college? Working? What's the story?

Forget everybody else for a minute. Do you like you? Are you comfortable in your own skin? Are there things you do (stamp collecting, cliff diving, gardening or whatever) that make you happy?

Taltos

OP - in light of your posts here and your other thread from last month we have no option but to strongly recommend you seek professional help and guidance.

As much as people here want to help you we are just not qualified and by attempting to help you would just do you a disservice.
Please go speak to your GP immediately - maybe bring along the threads you have started here and seek the help you need and deserve.

All the best and sorry we cannot be of more help.
Taltos