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Relatives and friends gone forever.

  • 01-10-2012 10:27pm
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 550 ✭✭✭


    Are memories enough to get over loved ones dying. We'll all have to experience our parents dying for example unless we die first.

    Sometimes the thought that loved ones will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out a bit. That's it gone for good.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,147 ✭✭✭PizzamanIRL


    What's with the depressing threads tonight?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,959 ✭✭✭Jesus Shaves


    Happy happy joy joy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 611 ✭✭✭Strawberry Fields


    There are places I remember
    All my life, though some have changed
    Some forever not for better
    Some have gone and some remain
    All these places have their moments
    With lovers and friends I still can recall
    Some are dead and some are living
    In my life I've loved them all


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    Nothing like reading a positive upbeat thread on boards before bed aye.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,351 ✭✭✭NegativeCreep


    The thought that my siblings will die before me (I'm the youngest by a good bit) is an absolutely sickening one. I'd much rather die first.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    The thought that my siblings will die before me (I'm the youngest by a good bit) is an absolutely sickening one. I'd much rather die first.

    That can be arranged....for a price


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Gauss wrote: »
    Are memories enough to get over loved ones dying. We'll all have to experience our parents dying for example unless we die first.

    Sometimes the thought that loved ones will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out a bit. That's it gone for good.
    They're not really gone in some respects. People have children so they reproduce their genes, then they often program their children with their own life learnings so they can be even better than they were.

    Humans live on through their children in ways that supersede natures intentions. We know of people and their stories going back generations and millennia, children often carry on, not just memories but behaviours of their parents You could jump into the future a generation or two and probably see your grandchildren walking down the road just like your father did. That's a type of immortality.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,367 ✭✭✭Quandary


    Gauss wrote: »
    Sometimes the thought that loved ones will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out a bit. That's it gone for good.

    Ah it's nothing to be freaked out about. When we do die I firmly believe it will be like a dreamless sleep, one we obviously never wake up from though. Sometimes when I wake up in the morning and can't remember anything from the previous 7 hours, I think that's what death must be like from a dead person's perspective(if you'll excuse the oxymoron :))

    There's something strangely peaceful about nothingness if you think about it for long enough!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    Gauss wrote: »
    Sometimes the thought that loved ones will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out a bit. That's it gone for good.

    Balls to that. The thought that me will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭SharpshooterTom


    humbert wrote: »
    Balls to that. The thought that me will be gone forever into nothingness freaks me out.

    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    Everyone and everything will break down to atoms and exist forever. Night all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?
    The thought of living forever scared me even as a kid. Phuk that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?
    Me, absolutely me. Hopefully when they cure death everyone else shares sentiment, I'll be first in the queue.


  • Administrators, Computer Games Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 32,531 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Mickeroo


    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?



    :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 621 ✭✭✭dave3004


    Humbert I am with you all the way here!

    The best perspective I found on it, and it hasnt cured my fear at all but its the best I found was a quote from Mark Twain.

    "I don't fear death, I was dead for millions of years before I was born and it never caused me the slightest inconvenience".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 Glenn_Flinn


    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?

    We DO live forever. All of us. The people on this forum are just sheep beyond belief, and Atheism is the hip thing sheep are 'bahh'ing along to these days.

    Living forever won't be unpleasant. Unpleasantness only comes from being a spiritual entity trapped in animal flesh like we are all experiencing now. But it's just an experience. The only thing that's for certain is that we live forever.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,903 ✭✭✭Napper Hawkins


    Ugh. Accept the inevitable or spend the rest of your only existence scared.

    I know what I'm going to do. Good luck everyone.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Gauss


    pragmatic1 wrote: »
    I'm rather looking forward to it. Who the hell would want to live forever?
    The thought of living forever scared me even as a kid. Phuk that.

    Yea living forever could be boring too.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,596 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    Birth implies death.

    Thing to do is make new friends.
    Make younger friends.
    Look to the next generation of relatives too.

    People live on in memories, and you can pass on those memories as stories to younger relations. If you don't tell the stories who will remember ?

    "I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain."


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