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  • 30-09-2012 9:56am
    #1
    Mr. Noname
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    Right so I've been with my girlfriend for one year today and in the year we have been together I just haven't be able to make her climax during oral. I have tried everything except toys because frankly I'd feel awkward buying one ! It's been really annoying me that I just can't do it, I've done it with other girls before yes and I don't understand why its not working now. I love this girl with all my heart, I really want to be able to do this for her.


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  • #2
    P. Breathnach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,089 ✭✭✭✭P. Breathnach


    Have you talked to her about it? It's a problem only if it bothers her.


  • #3
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    Lots of women don't climax during sex and most of us pretend we do. Maybe this woman is the first that has been honest with you. If she doesn't climax with you it is probably her problem not yours as you seem to be trying everything. She might not be able to climax with anyone as she probably cannot let herself go. She is the one who needs to be working on herself. You sound like a very caring person so don't let this come between you. I really think that she needs to be coming up with a solution i.e. telling you what she wants and not you breaking your neck trying to please her. I hope this works out for you both.


  • #4
    up for anything
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,779 ✭✭✭up for anything


    A couple of things - the passion and excitement go out of a sexual encounter when one person tries too hard. All of a sudden it becomes an if I rub this enough clinical experiment. It's also not very conducive to relaxing and getting into the moment if she is aware that you've 'had no difficulty' bringing other women to orgasm but that she is not coming up to scratch in the big O scenario.

    It seems to me that this is more your problem than hers. Perhaps your ego is feeling a bit bruised by this seeming lack of response from her. She may be one of those who derive enjoyment from sex but don't orgasm for one reason or another and is content.


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