Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Having dreams about my GFs sister

  • 27-09-2012 10:18am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    Going unreg for this as its very embarassing.

    Basically in the last few weeks i have been having sexual dreams about my GF's sister. Now she is a very attractive girl and ive known her for years but this is only recently.

    Its become very awkward as when i look at her now all i have is flashbacks of my dreams. Can anyone explain why this is happening. As im starting to freak out now.


Comments

  • #2
    DeltaWhite
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 666 ✭✭✭DeltaWhite


    Dreams are dreams! I wouldnt over think things as that is why you are now freaking out when you see her! That dream could mean anything! I used to over analyse dreams until I got so fed up that now - I dont bat an eyelid when I have nightmares etc.. they're just dreams to me :)


  • #3
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    Dreams shouldn't be taken too literally. Dreaming of having sex with your gf's sister does not mean you want to (or are going to) have sex with your gf's sister.

    It could simply be your subconscious expressing something else - some kind of ongoing issue which is affecting your current relationship (sexual or otherwise?), or a desire to break from the routine in your life and try something new or out of bounds.

    You've no need to feel embarassed. Remember, your gf's sisters has no knowledge of any of this, so if you are acting strange around her out of embarassment then that will seem weird to her.


  • #4
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    It's not crazy to have a sexual dream about a woman you find attractive and interact with. It's just uncomfortable because you wouldn't do it in real life, and you don't want to be thinking of her in that way.

    Dreams are psychic dumps. They're just ways of sorting out your head so you stay sane. I think it's your brain's way of dealing with an impulse it knows it's not going to express in real life. Getting hung up about the dream is what's causing it to be recycled over and over.

    It might be helpful to keep in mind this: The woman in your dream is just a construct of your imagination. It's not actually the woman herself.


  • #5
    amtc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,490 ✭✭✭amtc


    Dreams are just that - dreams.

    I've had two recurring dreams for life - both are classic anxiety dreams - one is my teeth falling out and my mother ignoring me in car and the other not being able to get a dial tone on a phone. For a short period of time I also had one about blocked toilets in Clerys!

    None of these things have ever happened in real life.

    I wouldn't worry


Advertisement