What do guys think of girls asking them out

LegacyUser

Hi,

So i've been thinking about asking this guy i like out, we've been out before a few times but he generally made all the moves.

I'm just wondering what guys think when girls make a move?
I think it would be fine in this day and age but just looking for others opinions

Hi I think there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out I would prefer it that way so go for it....

ted1

Go for it.

Lorna123

I'm not a guy but if you have been out with this guy several times and nothing has come of it then why bother?

Ellsbells

When were you last out with him? What happened in the meantime?

LegacyUser

We we're out last week before we both went back to University, we kinda acknowledged that we would be really busy this year as we are both in Final year, but that we would see each other when we could.

As for nothing coming of it even though we've been out a few times, neither of us want a full on committed relationship with the uni work & work because we wont be able to see each other all the time.

I was however thinking in a bit asking if he wanted to go out somewhere once we're settled into our routines.

cantdecide

As a bloke: if you've been out several times and he's making all the moves, maybe he's thinking now that you're not that pushed. I would definitely think it's time for you to ask him out, the least you should be doing is inviting him or hinting at him that you want him to ask you out again. If you're enjoying his company, it's important that you show him or you'll seem a little withdrawn.

Sponge25

What's wrong with the girl making the move?

I'd be flattered if a girl made a move like that on me, especially if I was single.

kiddums

As a bloke I'd like it if a woman asked me out. At least then I'd know she's at least intrested.

dannyc31

i'd actually love this to happen. just like women, men love a woman to be confident in herself. this would show alot of balls imo for a woman to know what she wants and ask a man out. its yet to happen thou, guess i can keep hoping

I've asked out guys twice, and both times I ended up in a really good relationship. So I'd say go for it.

Worst case scenario, he says no and you finally know exactly where you stand and can move on. So it's pretty much win-win since no matter what he replies, you'll be in a better position than you are now.

Ickle Magoo

OP - the advice is unanimous.

As this is polling for views rather than asking for advice regarding an issue within your relationship, I'll lock this thread.

Best of luck :cool: