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Help me before I mess it all up

  • 10-09-2012 7:00pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi peeps.

    So here it goes, no point dilly dalling about the place.
    Im with a girl 6months, amazing relationship. Have been away together and have met her close friends. So all in all its pretty damn good. Recently I began feeling strong feelings for her and let slip that I love her, it was reciprocated...Excellent. I was over the moon completely. Really do love this girl and would do anything for her. Im usually one to keep women at an arms length and have been in relationships but never in love. This girl to put it simple broke the mould and got in under my skin...BIG TIME.

    However recently I have found Im being a little obsessive about it. Im waiting on texts like a dog for food, I get ratty, nervous, and over play ridiculous scenarios in my head when I dont hear back.
    I know its all in my head, as there is nothing to say she would cheat or lie or anything to me. In fact she has been open about everything with me, from past relationships both casual and serious. Its amazing how much I really admire, respect and love this girl. I never thought Id let my guard down, didnt even realise I had a guard up until now.

    So back to the issue, how do I stop myself being overly clingy, I dont want it to happen but I notice myself heading that way.

    Help me please!!


Comments

  • #2
    Ellsbells
    Closed Accounts Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Ellsbells


    Stay very busy and remember that sometimes thing are just right. Enjoy and try not to worry.


  • #3
    WhyGoBald
    Closed Accounts Posts: 146 ✭✭WhyGoBald


    Relax, and remember you can't control how she behaves, you can only get to know and trust her.


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