Day game..predicament .. (what she want?)

ranger123

Two weeks ago a pretty girl drew my attention in the city & decided to coldly approach her & I successfully done that:

Me: line of Compliment
Her: thank you, that`s very nice of you
Me: by the way am (my name)
Her: nice to meet you am (her name)
Her: following saying her name..but I have a BOYFRIEND
Me: 1st, realization that I have been shot . Fine, but I dint wanted to die in the scene so I replied: cool, but having a boyfriend will not change the fact that you’re smoking hot
Her: LOL, so what you up to?
The conversation continue for15 minutes, she agreed to go out next day..number exchanged] bye…scene closed

Next day:
I called no answer..2 hours later sent text no feedback..another 2 hours I deleted her number & forgotten all about.

7 days later:
In the same exact place at same exact time we met again face to face (what a surprise).. we ended talking for almost 30 minutes (never mentioned about my call or text). However, she apologized for not getting back to me for reason that a member of her family died & she will be a way of the city for the next 5 days & she said the day am back I have plenty of time if you are free we can meet & TALK.
Me: cool, no problem but I have deleted your number so you have to give it to me again
Here: :eek: she took my phone & entered-dialed her number from my phone while looking to screen

Now: my mind is just shut down & meeting will be after 72 hours & I don’t know should I go meet her or not? What is the logical reading to the whole scenario? Is the boyfriend mentioned in first day just a girl protective line against street approaches? should I consider it a date?

Any quick advice from dating experts will be very valuable

Cheers,

greenprincess

Well I'm not a dating expert! But if she has a boyfriend it Could be a whole lot of hassle!!! I don't know why she would lie about having a boyfriend

Sinfonia

greenprincess wrote: »

Well I'm not a dating expert! But if she has a boyfriend it Could be a whole lot of hassle!!! I don't know why she would lie about having a boyfriend

Potentially she was initially uninterested, but after talking to this casanova for a while, she found herself intrigued, and agreed to the date..

On the other hand, maybe she does have a boyfriend and never intends to actually meet up with you, but would rather send you off happily than face the awkwardness or whatever associated with refusal.

Lorna123

She could have a boyfriend and just decided to say it upfront in case she needed an excuse not to meet you. Then she thought about it and decided it was better not to enter into any liaison with you. So you meet up again and she is starting to enjoy the attention and has agreed to a date. You haven't met yet so just wait and see what happens next. She is not engaged and you don't know how long she is in a relationship, it may not be a relationship that she wants to commmit to anyway. My advice would be to just wait and see what happens next. You may never hear from her again.

ranger123

greenprincess, Sinfonia & Lorna123 ..many thanks for the comments all will be considered

Lorna123 wrote: »

You may never hear from her again.

If I considered this assumption seriously I guess I`ll be stood up in the rain because the moment I said I deleted your number here eyes was sending really strange flash I didn’t & I will not be able to convert it to meaningful term.

I started the game but seem am no longer the one who sets the rules :cool:

Ickle Magoo

Please use the standard font.

Cheers

Young_gunner

I can't see how people think the OP is in this for an ego boost ?

Any update OP?

WhyGoBald

Doctor Jimbob wrote: »

Mostly just the general talking about the whole thing as if it's a game. Apologies if I'm wrong OP but if that is the case, the girl doesn't deserve it.

Yes - "day game" is 'pick-up artist' speak. My advice to the OP is to drop the games and start being sincere - it will serve you better.

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