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long distance relationships

  • 08-09-2012 10:45am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi

    I have found advice on here nearly spot on the other issue re a previous break up and back looking for some advice and maybe people who have been in similiar position

    I met a girl at the start of August and we spent a night together.it was a pre arranged meet up between me and her as we met through people we knew.there was nothing sexual involved.There was a definite chemistry between us from the start and we exchanged texts in the weeks after with me pushing to meet up again. However she then informed me that the reason she didnt want to move things forward was that she was moving to the uk to study and didnt want to get involved in anything serious and i was happy enough and replied that wed take things as they come and we both stayed in contact.

    I kept living my life and chasing other women with a bit of success but didnt enjoy it as i have been thinkinh about this girl a lot.

    she moved a few weeks ago and we have kept in touch. she is not enjoying it and is finding it hard to adjust to her new life and has come to me for support. I have advised her to give it her all and if shes not enjoying it in a few months time then its only her who can make the decision. I at the same time am a bit scared that if she doesnt stick at it and comes home a relationship may not devolop between us and im fine with that.

    she is mid twenties and im a few years older so where not youngsters.she is due home in a motnhs time so hopefully wel see how things go then

    the main advice i suppose i want answered is
    is chemistry enough over text even though there was chemistry when we met
    does if a relaionship develop between us how hard is long distance

    thanking you


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