bought house and now seperating

stevenl123

hi there, im just looking for advice. ill try to keep the story short but hope someone can give me pointers.
basically i bought house with my ex girlfriend nearly 2 years ago. it was 210k, of which we got a mortgage for 185k and the rest was a deposit saved up between us, more so me.
we also have a 15k loan we got for furnishings etc..

we have a 3 year old son. we bought the house in kildare but she is originally from wexford.
i am now out of the house living back home, and she is back and forth from house and her own parents home in wexford.

i am open to leaving her the house for the sake of my son being closer to me, but she wants me to walk away empty handed, sign house over to her and she not buy me out, though she wants me to keep paying credit union loan myself which is 380 a month, and also 130 maintenance a week.

i started an attic conversion in house which is not finished, so is not in a sellable condition, therefore one of us needs to stay in it.

i am on about 580 a week myself and have rent and bills to pay at home too.

should i just walk away empty handed or do you think she should be buying me out??

thanks for reading, hope someone can help

Procrastastudy

Cant give legal advice as per charter and lack of ability to do so - but I think your decision might be rendered a bit academic when/if you approach the bank. I suspect their answer will be; we'd rather have too people liable for this money thank you very much.