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Why can't people move on?

  • 01-09-2012 6:17pm
    #1
    Finlex
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 ✭


    Hey, so lately iv been really saddened by how so many people, particularly women (I am female!) back stab and undermine others and manipulate people like toys.,


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  • #2
    Super-Rush
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Moved from After Hours.

    Remember this is NOT After Hours.


  • #3
    edellc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭edellc


    I know I going to be slated for this but Im saying it anyway, I seriously think there is something wrong with a person when they can not find a meaningful relationship with someone their own age and have to have relations with someone who is young enough to be their child. I mean a 50 something year old woman in a relationship with a 25 yr old man seriously....I dont care if it happens in hollywood or is apparently the "new thing" ie cougers...if have to look that far out of your age bracket then you seriously haven't the mental capacity to behave like an adult.

    So OP from your post I clearly think she is one of those older women who just never matured mentally, you do get them and its sad to see, sounds to me like your OH is better off out of the situation and away from this nutter. I do think that you need to cut all contact and if that includes ignoring her on the street then so be it, yes it may be rude but sometimes these things have to be done...the world is full of head cases and it seems your OH shacked up with one and now unfortunately you have to deal with her too, stop speaking to her on the phone and you need to let your OH know that you are not going to put up with this crap, its not your mess or fall out to deal with and if you are going to have a long term relationship then he needs to lay down the law with the ex and tell her where to go once and for all and then if and when he bumps into her behave like she is a total randomer who he doesnt know.

    She will soon get the message and if not take a restraining order out on her :D joking you cant do this unless she becomes violent so the silent treatment will hopefully work.


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