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  • 30-08-2012 6:55pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭


    Just wanted some clarity on this......

    I was baptised a Catholic but I didn't know I was a catholic until I was about 12. I was always brought to Church of Ireland services by my Dad, I also made my confirmation as church of Ireland.....My mum is protestant and so are my brother and sister.

    So I'm confused what religion am I? I would have always considered myself Church of Ireland just because it is what I know.

    Stupid question but I am totally confused. I am planning to get married next year and want to get married in my local Church of Ireland. Is that going to cause problems? My fiancee is a non practising catholic so is not bother by getting married in a Church of Ireland.....

    Argh sorry....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,205 ✭✭✭Benny_Cake


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Just wanted some clarity on this......

    I was baptised a Catholic but I didn't know I was a catholic until I was about 12. I was always brought to Church of Ireland services by my Dad, I also made my confirmation as church of Ireland.....My mum is protestant and so are my brother and sister.

    So I'm confused what religion am I? I would have always considered myself Church of Ireland just because it is what I know.

    Stupid question but I am totally confused. I am planning to get married next year and want to get married in my local Church of Ireland. Is that going to cause problems? My fiancee is a non practising catholic so is not bother by getting married in a Church of Ireland.....

    Argh sorry....

    If you were confirmed in and are attending the Church of Ireland, then you are a member of that church. The Catholic Church and Church of Ireland would recognise each others baptisms so that is a complete non-issue. You should have no problems, best of luck and congratulations!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,783 ✭✭✭Puck


    notsobusy wrote: »
    So I'm confused what religion am I?

    What do you believe?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,237 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    Puck wrote: »
    What do you believe?

    Exactly.

    There's a simple test:

    Do you believe in God but think that transubstantiation* is nonsense?

    If yes to both, then you're not Catholic.

    *transubstantiation means that communion wafers are literally transformed into Jesus parts.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,927 ✭✭✭georgieporgy


    Exactly.

    There's a simple test:

    Do you believe in God but think that transubstantiation* is nonsense?

    If yes to both, then you're not Catholic.

    *transubstantiation means that communion wafers are literally transformed into Jesus parts.

    There's a bit more to it than that.

    Maybe she should investigate what it means to be catholic and then decide for herself?
    Looks like her dad was catholic and baptised her in catholic church (his parents influence?) and then went along to his wife's Church of Ireland services for an easy life.
    The OP's fiancee seems to be a similar type of catholic.
    The only one giving any thought to religion appears to be the OP herself.
    She is obviously Church of Ireland as that is all she knows.

    But if she wanted to know more about the catholic church she probably would need to seek and knock (as opposed to ask an atheist).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,205 ✭✭✭Benny_Cake


    Puck wrote: »
    What do you believe?

    Exactly.

    There's a simple test:

    Do you believe in God but think that transubstantiation* is nonsense?

    If yes to both, then you're not Catholic.

    *transubstantiation means that communion wafers are literally transformed into Jesus parts.

    Not quite that simple, many Anglicans would believe in the physical presence of Christ in the Eucharist, they just tend to be reluctant to define what it is that happens. There is probably less difference between Anglicans and Roman Catholics regarding the Eucharist than there is on many other issues.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Exactly.

    There's a simple test:

    Do you believe in God but think that transubstantiation* is nonsense?

    If yes to both, then you're not Catholic.

    *transubstantiation means that communion wafers are literally transformed into Jesus parts.

    Yes to both, I don't really understand the technical bits.....I'm happy as COI I don't actually want to be a catholic....ever!!

    My Dad also considers himself COI, his parents were killed in an accident and his mum was catholic and Dad protestant and the catholic church in the village weren't going to allow them to be buried together. Pretty horrific for a 19 yr old boy to be dealing with. So he's pretty much never been into the Catholic Church and doesn't believe in their teachings. He also went to a catholic school run by monks/priests.....not the happiest time of his life.

    I did ask them why on earth I was baptised as a Catholic and the simple answer was that the Catholic priest was the first one through the door....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭Gumbi


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Exactly.

    There's a simple test:

    Do you believe in God but think that transubstantiation* is nonsense?

    If yes to both, then you're not Catholic.

    *transubstantiation means that communion wafers are literally transformed into Jesus parts.

    Yes to both, I don't really understand the technical bits.....I'm happy as COI I don't actually want to be a catholic....ever!!

    My Dad also considers himself COI, his parents were killed in an accident and his mum was catholic and Dad protestant and the catholic church in the village weren't going to allow them to be buried together. Pretty horrific for a 19 yr old boy to be dealing with. So he's pretty much never been into the Catholic Church and doesn't believe in their teachings. He also went to a catholic school run by monks/priests.....not the happiest time of his life.

    I did ask them why on earth I was baptised as a Catholic and the simple answer was that the Catholic priest was the first one through the door....
    I would advise studying your chosen faith in order to determine whether you believe in it. Something so important should be verifified thoroughly. You may find you dislike/disbelieve some of its teachings.

    Gl!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    Hi notsobusy

    In response to your first question? what religion am I?
    You are a Christian.

    You should be asking: what denomination am I?
    By the sounds of it you are comfortable and familiar with C of I therefore that is probably where you should be married.

    Continue to strive to improve your relationship with Jesus and He will guide you as to the denomination He would like you to worship at.

    May the Blessings of God be on you both and your married life together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,045 ✭✭✭martinedwards


    What Brian said.

    and what Benny Cake said.

    Baptism is baptism regardless of denomination.

    the fact that you were confirmed in the C of I without any hassles confirms this.

    you have been attending and are a member of a C of I congragation all your life then you're C of I.

    IF you decide to move to a Baptist church then you'll be baptist (or where ever)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Just wanted some clarity on this......

    I was baptised a Catholic but I didn't know I was a catholic until I was about 12. I was always brought to Church of Ireland services by my Dad, I also made my confirmation as church of Ireland.....My mum is protestant and so are my brother and sister.

    So I'm confused what religion am I? I would have always considered myself Church of Ireland just because it is what I know.

    Stupid question but I am totally confused. I am planning to get married next year and want to get married in my local Church of Ireland. Is that going to cause problems? My fiancee is a non practising catholic so is not bother by getting married in a Church of Ireland.....

    Argh sorry....

    If you are baptised in a catholic church, the catholic church considers you to be a catholic, and therefore bound by Canon law.

    If you subsequently get confirmed in the church of Ireland, you are considered to have publicly defected from the faith by a formal act and are automatically excommunicate. You are still bound by the marriage laws of the church, and you cannot validly contract marriage while under automatic excommunication. (note, excommunication does not mean you are not a catholic, it means you are a catholic with certain restrictions on how you can recieve the sacraments).

    Normally a marriage between a catholic and a protestant, once done with the proper permissions for the catholic, is considered a valid sacrament. In your case you cannot a the moment marry anyone, protestant or catholic, as far as the catholic church is concerned, until such time as you sort out your canonical status. I have no idea how the church of ireland views the matter.

    Also the age you were when you were confirmed would alter the case, but i am presuming you were in your teens as that is my experience of C of I confirmations., if you were under seven, of course, it woukld affect the issue as you would have been below the age of reason.


    I just noticed that you say your fiancee is a non-practising catholic. She would also need permission to marry. Basically from the catholic point of view you are two catholics who wish to marry. Neither of you are considered to be members of the Church of ireland, so there will be no grounds to give you permission to marry there, as there might be if one of you were actually members of the church of ireland. If you go ahead and get married there, the Catholic church will not consider either of you married. As i said before I have no idea how the church of Ireland regards all of this, and whether or not they have formal laws about it, or it is just up to the local vicar, i am sure he would be happy to advise you.
    here are the relevant catholic laws:
    PENALTIES FOR INDIVIDUAL DELICTS

    TITLE I.

    DELICTS AGAINST RELIGION AND THE UNITY OF THE CHURCH (Cann. 1364 - 1369)

    Can. 1364 §1. Without prejudice to the prescript of can. 194, §1, n. 2, an apostate from the faith, a heretic, or a schismatic incurs a latae sententiae excommunication;

    the catechism of the Catholic church defines these as follows
    CCC2089 Incredulity is the neglect of revealed truth or the willful refusal to assent to it. "Heresy is the obstinate post-baptismal denial of some truth which must be believed with divine and catholic faith, or it is likewise an obstinate doubt concerning the same; apostasy is the total repudiation of the Christian faith; schism is the refusal of submission to the Roman Pontiff or of communion with the members of the Church subject to him
    Can. 1314 Generally, a penalty is ferendae sententiae, so that it does not bind the guilty party until after it has been imposed; if the law or precept expressly establishes it, however, a penalty is latae sententiae, so that it is incurred ipso facto when the delict is committed. [this just to explain what latae sententiae excommunication means, it means it is automatic upon doing the act to which the penalty is attached. BB]
    PENALTIES AND OTHER PUNISHMENTS (Cann. 1331 - 1340)

    CHAPTER I.

    CENSURES

    Can. 1331 §1. An excommunicated person is forbidden:


    2/ to celebrate the sacraments or sacramentals and to receive the sacraments;


    Can. 1323 The following are not subject to a penalty when they have violated a law or precept:

    1/ a person who has not yet completed the sixteenth year of age;

    2/ a person who without negligence was ignorant that he or she violated a law or precept; inadvertence and error are equivalent to ignorance;


    6/ a person who lacked the use of reason, without prejudice to the prescripts of cann. , §1, n. 2 and 1325;


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,927 ✭✭✭georgieporgy


    [QUOTE=bonniebede;80598609

    Can. 1323 The following are not subject to a penalty when they have violated a law or precept:

    1/ a person who has not yet completed the sixteenth year of age;

    2/ a person who without negligence was ignorant that he or she violated a law or precept; inadvertence and error are equivalent to ignorance;


    6/ a person who lacked the use of reason, without prejudice to the prescripts of cann. , §1, n. 2 and 1325;[/QUOTE]

    I think we can safely say that this applies to the OP seeing as she was brought up COI.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Right so basically the Catholic Church doesn't see us as being married? But does the State?

    Because to be honest I couldn't give a rattle what the Catholic Church think. I was confirmed at 13.

    We have a son and he is being baptised in a few weeks as C of I. Also my fiancee is divorced so we couldn't get married in a Catholic Church anyway and we would like to get married in a church.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Right so basically the Catholic Church doesn't see us as being married? But does the State?

    Because to be honest I couldn't give a rattle what the Catholic Church think. I was confirmed at 13.

    We have a son and he is being baptised in a few weeks as C of I. Also my fiancee is divorced so we couldn't get married in a Catholic Church anyway and we would like to get married in a church.

    Do you actually believe in the teachings of any particular Christian denomination.

    Or are you just trying to find a technical way to get married in a church?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    bonniebede wrote: »
    PENALTIES FOR INDIVIDUAL DELICTS

    TITLE I.

    DELICTS AGAINST RELIGION AND THE UNITY OF THE CHURCH (Cann. 1364 - 1369)

    Can. 1364 §1. Without prejudice to the prescript of can. 194, §1, n. 2, an apostate from the faith, a heretic, or a schismatic incurs a latae sententiae excommunication;

    the catechism of the Catholic church defines these as follows
    CCC2089 Incredulity is the neglect of revealed truth or the willful refusal to assent to it. "Heresy is the obstinate post-baptismal denial of some truth which must be believed with divine and catholic faith, or it is likewise an obstinate doubt concerning the same; apostasy is the total repudiation of the Christian faith; schism is the refusal of submission to the Roman Pontiff or of communion with the members of the Church subject to him
    Can. 1314 Generally, a penalty is ferendae sententiae, so that it does not bind the guilty party until after it has been imposed; if the law or precept expressly establishes it, however, a penalty is latae sententiae, so that it is incurred ipso facto when the delict is committed. [this just to explain what latae sententiae excommunication means, it means it is automatic upon doing the act to which the penalty is attached. BB]
    PENALTIES AND OTHER PUNISHMENTS (Cann. 1331 - 1340)

    CHAPTER I.

    CENSURES

    Can. 1331 §1. An excommunicated person is forbidden:


    2/ to celebrate the sacraments or sacramentals and to receive the sacraments;


    Can. 1323 The following are not subject to a penalty when they have violated a law or precept:

    1/ a person who has not yet completed the sixteenth year of age;

    2/ a person who without negligence was ignorant that he or she violated a law or precept; inadvertence and error are equivalent to ignorance;


    6/ a person who lacked the use of reason, without prejudice to the prescripts of cann. , §1, n. 2 and 1325;

    Bonnie, no disrespect intended here, but is this current law?
    My experience in the RC church certainly doesn't reflect this view.

    At this time last year I was working for an evangelical organisation, attending what would be classified as a protestant church and my 'assignment' was in a Catholic High School leading a group of students in their spiritual development and participating fully in the weekly mass.

    All with the blessing of the school principal, chaplain and assorted priests.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Zombrex wrote: »
    notsobusy wrote: »
    Right so basically the Catholic Church doesn't see us as being married? But does the State?

    Because to be honest I couldn't give a rattle what the Catholic Church think. I was confirmed at 13.

    We have a son and he is being baptised in a few weeks as C of I. Also my fiancee is divorced so we couldn't get married in a Catholic Church anyway and we would like to get married in a church.

    Do you actually believe in the teachings of any particular Christian denomination.

    Or are you just trying to find a technical way to get married in a church?

    Yes I do actually, I believe I am a protestant and have been taught their teachings since I can remember and I attend regular church services.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Right so basically the Catholic Church doesn't see us as being married? But does the State?

    Because to be honest I couldn't give a rattle what the Catholic Church think. I was confirmed at 13.

    We have a son and he is being baptised in a few weeks as C of I. Also my fiancee is divorced so we couldn't get married in a Catholic Church anyway and we would like to get married in a church.

    Well that makes it much more straight forward.
    to try and be brief about what marriages the Catholic Church recognises.
    The Catholic church recognises as marriage -
    • state marriages between two unbaptised people (there are some weird exceptions for people who get baptised after they are married , but nothing which applies in your case)
    • Protestant marriages between two baptised protestants
    • Catholic marriages between two catholics when it is done according the the form set out in catholic law
    • no marriage of any sort where one partner has previously been validly married in any of the above forms and subsequently gets a divorce
    It does not consider valid a marriage of a catholic which is done without proper form - that would include marriages of catholics in registry offices (state marriage) or in protestant churches.

    There are some exceptions to this - you can get permission to marry in a protestant church in the case of a mixed marriage, if you are on a desert island and there is no one else around at all you can get married with presumed dispensation and so on and so on, but basically there aren't, from what you have described to me, any weird circumstances surrounding your situation.

    As long as your marriage is conducted by someone the state considers legal to register your marriage - any protestant minister would do, for example, or a state registrar, the STATE will consider your marriage valid. If you get married in the C of I they(the c of I ) may also consider it valid, but I have no info to give you on this, and the fact that your fiancee is a divorced catholic might matter to them, you would have to ask someone who knows their set up.

    You have given a number of reasons which might invalidate your marriage as far as the catholic church is concerned
    • your wife is a catholic and so must marry by the form in catholic law, unless given permission to do otherwise
    • you might be considered catholic and so also bound by the same law
    • you might be excommunicate because of your protestant confirmation
    • you wife might be already considered married, and so not free to marry, if the marriage she is divorced from, her first marriage, was considered a valid marriage
    BUT It seems that you are really just wondering if the state will recognise your marriage in a C of I - and the answer, presuming your wife-to-be has a valid legal divorce is most probably yes.:D

    hope you have a nice day of it!.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede


    Bonnie, no disrespect intended here, but is this current law?
    My experience in the RC church certainly doesn't reflect this view.

    At this time last year I was working for an evangelical organisation, attending what would be classified as a protestant church and my 'assignment' was in a Catholic High School leading a group of students in their spiritual development and participating fully in the weekly mass.

    All with the blessing of the school principal, chaplain and assorted priests.

    What i've given is current law, yes. But i'm not sure what you are reading into it with regard to you situation?

    Let me take a few guesses at it, i might be misinterpreting your post, , so you can correct me.:)

    'participating fully in the weekly mass.' if this means attending, joining in the prayers, and so on, there is no problem there. Anyone, of any religious faith andnone, of any christian denomination and none, is welcome at any time to do this.

    however if by 'participating fully in the weekly mass.' you mean also receiving Holy Communion, there are a number of issues with this.

    You say you were working for an evangelical organisation, but you don't say if you are a catholic or not.

    If you are a catholic, there is not problem receiving Holy Communion at Mass, within the normal limits placed on any Catholic, which is to have fasted for 1 hour (unless ill) and not to be in a state of serious sin.

    If you are a protestant, you should not be receiving Communion at a Catholic Mass, unless given particular permission by your local Catholic Parish Priest or Bishop.
    • This permission is sometimes given to those who fully believe all that the Catholic church teaches about Holy Communion, it is a very exceptional permission.
    • It would never be given casually, a feel free to join in ' sort of statementm it might be given after a careful examination on points of doctrine and understanding.
    • More normally, a protestant who has come to accept the Catholic church teaching would be entering the church, and would not receive Communion until that has happened - you weoulkd first receive conditional baptism, sacrament of Confession, Confirmation and then Holy Communion.
    The biblical precept behind this position are found in
    1 Corinthians 11: 23-30
    B]23[/B For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took bread,
    B]24[/B and when he had given thanks, he broke it, and said, "This is my body which is for you. Do this in remembrance of me."
    B]25[/B In the same way also the cup, after supper, saying, "This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me."
    B]26[/B For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes.
    B]27[/B Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord.
    B]28[/B Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup.
    B]29[/B For any one who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment upon himself.
    B]30[/B That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died.

    The Catholic church has always understood from this that it is very dangerous, spiritually and physically, to allow someone to receive communion unless they understand and agree with what Jesus taught us about what holy Communion really is.

    I am sure you know that for Catholics, holy Communion is understood to be the actual body and blood, soul and divinity of Jesus, it is not a symbol or memorial of any sort.

    If you were raised a catholic and you are 'working for an evangelical organisation, attending what would be classified as a protestant church' you might be thinking from reading the canon law I posted that you are excommunicate. The key points here would be if this working and attending constituted a formal act of apostasy, heresy or schism. In the other posters case, he had received the sacrament of confirmation in a protestant church, this would be considered a formal act, and so might have incurred excommunication, though given his age and upbringing it might not have.
    Simply attending a protestant church is definitely not such an act, I do it myself, and love to pray woth other Christians. Just being there praying does not mean I have abandoned my catholic faith, far from it, i am trying to live it - it teaches me that protestants are Christians too and we are all part of the body of Christ.:)

    however if you were raised Catholic (baptised and confirmed) and now no longer practise your catholic faith you would need to go back to the Sacrament of Confession before receiving Holy Communion. AS you know Christians have serious obligation to keep the Sabbath Holy (ten commandments). For a Catholic this means going to Mass on a Sunday once you have reached the age of discretion (about 7 years old), with the normal sorts of exceptions for things like being ill, looking after children not living within distance fo a Mass and so on. If someone who is raised a Catholic is not going to mass they would be considered to be objectively in serious sin and so need to be reconciled (sacrament of confession or reconciliation) before receivng Communion again.
    Please note I said objectively - meaning it is a wrong act to miss mass on a Sunday; This is not the same as subjectively which is the question of the culpablility of the individual and depends on other factors too, like how much you knew and understood, or were taught, what your motivation was etc.

    The following document ' One bread, One Body' of the Bishops of Ireland and Britain was written in response to widespread confusion over the teaching of the Church on the Eucharaist (Holy Communion) and on sharing Holy Communion with others, and also on Catholics taking part in the services of other churchrs.

    http://www.catholicbishops.ie/wp-content/uploads/images/docs/onebread.pdf

    you could also check out canon law on line, or the Catholic Catechism online.
    Eucharist. THere are a number of recent papal documents on the Eucharist - Pope John Paul wrote a very interesting one call Ecclesia de Eucharistia or the The Church of the Eucharist which taljk about how it is from receiving Holy Communion that we are formed into one body in Christ.

    http://www.vatican.va/edocs/ENG0821/_INDEX.HTM

    And Pope Benedict has written an apostolic letter on the Eucharist here
    http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/apost_exhortations/documents/hf_ben-xvi_exh_20070222_sacramentum-caritatis_en.html


    :( Finally a word about being told by various people that is okay to participate - they may be right, I don't know enough of your circumstances. However they may also be wrong, there is widespread ignorance, and also rejection of Catholic Church teaching among those who would be considered practicing Catholics and even among the clergy. So if in doubt try to check it out from the actual teaching documents of the Church.

    Delighted to hear you are encouraging the young to love Jesus and grow in the Holy spirit - I work at that myself. I am sure god is very pleased with you for trying to bring them closer to him.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    I am just going to go and ask my Vicar what the story is?!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    Hey Bonnie
    I don't want to hijack this thread, but wanted to respond.

    Full participation in the mass. Doing the readings and taking communion.
    I became a Catholic about 1984 yet hadn't been since about 1994.
    I didn't leave the RC denomination for any other reason than a nudge from God to go elsewhere, now the nudge is back to RC.

    In having said all that no priest that I know is getting too excited about the Canon law that you have quoted. I find the priests to be quite refreshing in their attitude of welcoming anyone who is interested in getting closer to Christ through the Mass. (Now mind you, this is only an impression based on their actions and attitudes, not based on an interview to ask them their actually feelings).

    As for my own personal view on the eucharist, I sit somewhere between the host having the presence of Christ and being the body and blood of Christ. So, having this view, would that disqualify me from taking communion?

    Thanks :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede



    Hey Bonnie

    I don't want to hijack this thread, but wanted to respond.

    Full participation in the mass. Doing the readings and taking communion.

    I became a Catholic about 1984 yet hadn't been since about 1994.

    I didn't leave the RC denomination for any other reason than a nudge fromGod to go elsewhere, now the nudge is back to RC.

    In having said all that no priest that I know is getting too excited aboutthe Canon law that you have quoted. I find the priests to be quite refreshingin their attitude of welcoming anyone who is interested in getting closer toChrist through the Mass. (Now mind you, this is only an impression based ontheir actions and attitudes, not based on an interview to ask them theiractually feelings).

    As for my own personal view on the eucharist, I sit somewhere between thehost having the presence of Christ and being the body and blood of Christ. So,having this view, would that disqualify me from taking communion?

    Thanks


    No problem, if the original OP wants us to go elsewhere wecan, or chat by pm.:)

    Firstly let me say I don’t want to come across all cold andlegalistic by quoting canon law; its just that there is a lot of misinformationout there (including among priests and others you would expect to know better)and so as not to get bogged down in discussions about my opinion, I try to putnotes to where I am getting something from in the teaching documents of thechurch. Then anyone is free to disagree but at least we can stay grounded insomething the church has actually said, and not just a clash of opinions. Ofcourse I can be wrong, or not have full information, or be misinterpreting, soI am always open to correction:o and learning more.


    You say you became a Catholic in 1984 – I am presuming thatmeans you were either baptised as an adult, or received as an adult into thechurch after a valid protestant baptism, not you were baptised as an infant(doing some rapid mental arithmetic, that could of course be true, but I makingan assumption based on your phrasing)


    Did you receive some preparation before entering the Church?You should have had RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) or perhapssome catechesis with a priest or other catechist. However in my experience thisis often neglected.


    It seems to me from your posts that you are in livelypursuit of a living relationship to Jesus and willing to follow wherever theSpirit may lead you – good for you.:D Please pray for me as I try to do the same.There’s always more for me to learn.

    As you are a Catholic there is no reason you should notreceive Holy Communion at Mass, within the usual limits placed on allCatholics. You need to fast for an hour, and most importantly you should not beconscious of grave sin. If you are you should go to Confession first; thereasons why this is spiritually important are found in previous post see 1 Cor11:23-30. This would include not attending Mass. When I came back to the Churchafter a number of years away, this was my situation, I had done various thingswhich put at odds with god (okay sin:o) and though I felt a bit uncomfortableabout it, I found Confession a great help to getting closer to Jesus andputting his teaching back in the centre of my life.

    It is also interesting to note that when Jesus was teachingabout the Eucharist in John 6, he was willing to let people walk away who didnot agree with his teaching, he even gives the apostles freedom to do the same.Take a look at the last section – Judas clearly does not agree, but does notleave honestly, and it at this point that John notes that Satan got hold of him.:pac:

    John 6:66-71

    B]66[/BAfter this many of his disciples drew back and no longer went about with him.
    B]67[/B Jesus said to the twelve, "Do you also wish to go away?"
    B]68[/B Simon Peter answered him, "Lord, to whom shall we go? You havethe words of eternal life;
    B]69[/B and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the HolyOne of God."
    B]70[/B Jesus answered them, "Did I not choose you, the twelve, andone of you is a devil?"
    B]71[/B He spoke of Judas the son of Simon Iscariot, for he, one of thetwelve, was to betray him


    Later in John’sgospel we see that it is at the last supper that Judas finally gives in to thetemptation.

    John 13:23-30

    B]21[/BWhen Jesus had thus spoken, he was troubled in spirit, and testified,"Truly, truly, I say to you, one of you will betray me."
    B]22[/B The disciples looked at one another, uncertain of whom he spoke.
    B]23[/B One of his disciples, whom Jesus loved, was lying close to thebreast of Jesus;
    B]24[/B so Simon Peter beckoned to him and said, "Tell us who it is ofwhom he speaks."
    B]25[/B So lying thus, close to the breast of Jesus, he said to him,"Lord, who is it?"
    B]26[/B Jesus answered, "It is he to whom I shall give this morselwhen I have dipped it." So when he had dipped the morsel, he gave it toJudas, the son of Simon Iscariot.
    B]27[/B Then after the morsel, Satan entered into him. Jesus said to him,"What you are going to do, do quickly."
    B]28[/B Now no one at the table knew why he said this to him.
    B]29[/B Some thought that, because Judas had the money box, Jesus wastelling him, "Buy what we need for the feast"; or, that he shouldgive something to the poor.
    B]30[/B So, after receiving the morsel, he immediately went out; and it wasnight




    So in thegospel we have this very heightened emphasis on the importance of understandingthe teaching of Jesus on the Eucharist , which it is worth paying attention to.



    ‘As for my own personal view on the Eucharist,I sit somewhere between the host having the presence of Christ and being thebody and blood of Christ. So, having this view, would that disqualify me fromtaking communion?’

    I found this statement of yours very interesting. I thinkfor me the key would be to ask where your own personal view is coming from. Ofcourse anyone may hold any opinion they choose – but for those of us who aretrying to follow Jesus the question is not about my opinion but what did Jesusteach and do?

    Am I left with my own best guess as to what Jesus may havewanted? It is clear that when he was on earth Jesus ‘taught with authority’. I need to put myself under hisauthority. If I was left to my own opinion as to what Jesus really meant, Ihave to confess I would be very selective;) in my obedience.

    In resolving the question on what is the Eucharist – how areyou going to do it? Will it be your opinion, or is there some authoritativesource of teaching you can turn to? If so what is it, or where is it to befound, and where does its authority come from?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Work away I am finding it all interesting reading!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    Thanks notsobusy.
    Thanks also for your responses Bonnie, all very interesting.

    Funnily enough back in '84 when I became a catholic my fiancee and I had been attending church together (she born and raised RC in N. Ireland). I had known this priest for years through my aunt and uncle who attended that parish.

    I was taking communion every Saturday without any fuss ( I had been baptised and confirmed in the Anglican church). One Saturday I went to Fr. Joe and told him I would like to become a Catholic. He said with a big smile on his face, 'it is about time, come a little early for mass next week'.

    We went early, Fr. Joe had me read the apostles creed, he then asked me if I agreed with everything in there. I said, 'yes'. He then blessed me, made me a Catholic and then had me confess. He didn't like classes, he said he knew my heart and commitment towards and to God and that was good enough for him.

    On the Eucharist question.
    There are three basic views in Christendom on the Eucharist.
    1) symbolic
    2) presence of Christ
    3) transubstantiation

    Over my life I have held all three views as I read and study. Symbolic just doesn't cut it as every essay I have ever read defending this position says that Jesus really meant 'this is symbolic of my body and blood'. If Jesus meant it He would have said it.

    I have difficulty wrapping my head around transubstantiation because when He said 'this is my body', well He was holding the cup and He was standing there.

    In having said that I can't discount transubstantiation because Jesus said 'this is my body'. A pretty emphatic statement which is difficult to discount especially based on my comment re: symbolic. (I do try to be consistent :) )

    Which leaves me at #2? But it seems incomplete when coupled with Jesus' statements at the last supper in light of His statement in John 6:53-58
    Jesus said to them, “Very truly I tell you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. For my flesh is real food and my blood is real drink. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me, and I in them. Just as the living Father sent me and I live because of the Father, so the one who feeds on me will live because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Your ancestors ate manna and died, but whoever feeds on this bread will live forever.”

    Thanks for the clarification on legalism and that you are trying to clear up misconceptions, I honour that approach and find me doing that as well. I don't know how many times I have asked some people, 'have you even read the mass or looked at the catechism?':D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede


    Thanks notsobusy.
    Thanks also for your responses Bonnie, all very interesting.

    Funnily enough back in '84 when I became a catholic my fiancee and I had been attending church together (she born and raised RC in N. Ireland). I had known this priest for years through my aunt and uncle who attended that parish.

    I was taking communion every Saturday without any fuss ( I had been baptised and confirmed in the Anglican church). One Saturday I went to Fr. Joe and told him I would like to become a Catholic. He said with a big smile on his face, 'it is about time, come a little early for mass next week'.

    We went early, Fr. Joe had me read the apostles creed, he then asked me if I agreed with everything in there. I said, 'yes'. He then blessed me, made me a Catholic and then had me confess. He didn't like classes, he said he knew my heart and commitment towards and to God and that was good enough for him.

    On the Eucharist question.
    There are three basic views in Christendom on the Eucharist.
    1) symbolic
    2) presence of Christ
    3) transubstantiation

    Over my life I have held all three views as I read and study. Symbolic just doesn't cut it as every essay I have ever read defending this position says that Jesus really meant 'this is symbolic of my body and blood'. If Jesus meant it He would have said it.

    I have difficulty wrapping my head around transubstantiation because when He said 'this is my body', well He was holding the cup and He was standing there.

    In having said that I can't discount transubstantiation because Jesus said 'this is my body'. A pretty emphatic statement which is difficult to discount especially based on my comment re: symbolic. (I do try to be consistent :) )

    Which leaves me at #2? But it seems incomplete when coupled with Jesus' statements at the last supper in light of His statement in John 6:53-58
    Jesus said to them, “Very truly I tell you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. For my flesh is real food and my blood is real drink. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me, and I in them. Just as the living Father sent me and I live because of the Father, so the one who feeds on me will live because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Your ancestors ate manna and died, but whoever feeds on this bread will live forever.”

    Thanks for the clarification on legalism and that you are trying to clear up misconceptions, I honour that approach and find me doing that as well. I don't know how many times I have asked some people, 'have you even read the mass or looked at the catechism?':D

    Did you get to make your confirmation as a Catholic? Sounds like a nice low key approach, this priest, and if he knew you well enough to know what would work best for you, fair enough.

    I know what you mean about symbolic not being enough. The way Jesus emphasises the word eat, in the passage in John 6, as well as Johns deliberate positioning of this teaching directly after the niracle of feeding the crowd are significant.
    Its as if he wants to emphasise the difference between the Eucharist as heavenly food, and ordinary earthly food, even when that is given miraculously and in superabundance.

    one reflection that helped me was linking jesus's words with the creation account in Genesis. When god said 'let there be light' and so forth. You can be sure no created thing sat around wondering if it would comply.:) Similarly, when jesus says 'this is my body, this is my blood', he is the same god speaking his word or creative, authoritative power. Don't think the bread and wine are putting up much of a fight there.

    I have difficulty wrapping my head around transubstantiation because when He said 'this is my body', well He was holding the cup and He was standing there.

    Not quite sure what you are getting at here, could you elucidate?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,009 ✭✭✭donegal_man


    Just a quick thought from the CoI perspective. The OP has stated that their intended spouse is a divorcee, unless things have changed recently their application to marry in church will have to be referred by the vicar to the bishop for approval and if either of them has been divorced twice or more then they cannot have a church wedding.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Just a quick thought from the CoI perspective. The OP has stated that their intended spouse is a divorcee, unless things have changed recently their application to marry in church will have to be referred by the vicar to the bishop for approval and if either of them has been divorced twice or more then they cannot have a church wedding.

    When I spoke to my vicar recently about it he said that my OH would have to seek permission from the bishop......

    My OH has been married before and is divorced but only the once! His first wife is CoI aswell. Then only thing was that he said when he got married the first time his parish priest insisted on doing marriage counselling sessions before they got married. He is flat out refusing to do this again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,009 ✭✭✭donegal_man


    Possibly up the the local vicar but I've asked my dad and he had to attend the pre marriage course before his remarriage and also both parties had to satisfy the rector/vicar of their "legal, moral and spiritual capacity to enter into a marriage and that they intended to sustain the marriage for life with the help of God and the church" before the revd sent his recommendation to the bishop.
    There is also a service of preparation for remarriage in church to be attended by both parties
    Anyway good luck to both of you


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    bonniebede wrote: »

    I have difficulty wrapping my head around transubstantiation because when He said 'this is my body', well He was holding the cup and He was standing there.

    Not quite sure what you are getting at here, could you elucidate?

    On your first question. No my confirmation was made in the Anglican church.

    Sure on the elucidation:
    He is standing in his place at the table or sitting handing out the bread and wine saying 'this is my body'. Yet His body was actually standing (or sitting) at the table.

    His body had to be in two places at once. :o I have trouble reconciling that.

    Blessings
    Brian


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,927 ✭✭✭georgieporgy


    On your first question. No my confirmation was made in the Anglican church.

    Sure on the elucidation:
    He is standing in his place at the table or sitting handing out the bread and wine saying 'this is my body'. Yet His body was actually standing (or sitting) at the table.

    His body had to be in two places at once. :o I have trouble reconciling that.

    Blessings
    Brian

    So you figure that would be the one thing God would be unable to do?:)
    Though he had no trouble creating Time, the world we live in, all the biblical miracles etc.
    A book that would dispel any doubts is http://www.catholicfamilycatalog.com/fatima-the-great-sign-softcover-book-francis-johnston.htm
    It's a short read with guaranteed results!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Possibly up the the local vicar but I've asked my dad and he had to attend the pre marriage course before his remarriage and also both parties had to satisfy the rector/vicar of their "legal, moral and spiritual capacity to enter into a marriage and that they intended to sustain the marriage for life with the help of God and the church" before the revd sent his recommendation to the bishop.
    There is also a service of preparation for remarriage in church to be attended by both parties
    Anyway good luck to both of you

    I will have to speak to my rector again then and find out.
    Hmmmm OH might not be too happy.....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 563 ✭✭✭bonniebede


    On your first question. No my confirmation was made in the Anglican church.

    Sure on the elucidation:
    He is standing in his place at the table or sitting handing out the bread and wine saying 'this is my body'. Yet His body was actually standing (or sitting) at the table.

    His body had to be in two places at once. :o I have trouble reconciling that.

    Blessings
    Brian


    Hmm, i wondered. From a Catholic perspective, confirmation in the C of I is not a sacrament. Baptism is, because anyone can baptise; similarly with marriage, it is the couple who confer the sacrament on each other, where there is a priest present he is only there as an official witness for the church, not as mninister of the sacrament. For confirmation you need to have a bishop, or a priest delegated by a Bishop. As (from a Catholic perspective) there is no valid priesthood in the C of I, your c of i confirmation would not be considered a true sacrament, and you should have received this when you entered the Church. You could approach your local pp about it if you were interested.

    Okay, lets try this on for size.


    When wereceive the Eucharist are we receiving Jesus body as it was before theresurrection or are we receiving his glorified resurrected body?

    Surely it isobvious that it must be the latter? So how can he give them his resurrectedbody before the resurrection?

    Orsimilarly, isn’t the Mass a participation in the sacrifice of Calvary? So howcan the Last Supper be a Mass if Calvary and the Crucifixion are still in thefuture?



    I wouldsuggest that you can think of it this way.

    The Mass isa participation in the whole sequence of events from the Last supper throughthe Passion, through the Resurrection and to the Ascension.

    In thissequence of events Jesus first (at the last supper) brings to its height theincarnation, his participation in our humanity and our participation in hishumanity, hence he shares his body and blood with the Apostles.

    Then,carrying with him all of us in our sinful humanity , he embarks on the Passion,living out the consequences of our sin, because he has joined himself to us as sinners.

    Once sin isdealt with on the Cross, he continues to carry us with him to the Resurrection.Now for the first time, in Jesus, humanity can become what it was created tobe, not just free from sin but glorious in the power of God.

    Finally,Jesus takes this glorified human nature into heaven in the Ascension, back intothe presence of the Father where he pours himself out into the Fathers arms, asa perfect gift of himself in praise and thanksgiving.

    So then,when we come to participate in Mass, we are first caught up into Christ (thisactually happens in baptism which is why that sacrament comes first).

    We see thisis liturgically symbolised during the Mass, when at the preparation of thegifts the priest puts a tiny drop of water into the wine, and prays "Bythe mystery of this water and wine, may we come to share in the divinity ofChrist, who humbled Himself to share in our humanity."

    Then thesacrifice of Calvary re-presented (not represented as in symbolically, butpresented again to the Father,) . Now the Mass is not a re-sacrificing ofJesus, because Jesus died once, for all

    (Rom.6:10 The death he died he died to sin,once for all, but the life he lives he lives to God;

    Heb.7:27 Hehas no need, like those high priests, to offer sacrifices daily, first for hisown sins and then for those of the people; he did this once for all when heoffered up himself.)



    Jesus, aftermaking himself (through the words of the Consecration) present on the altar,allows us to again participate in his self-offering to the father

    (Heb9:24 ForChrist has entered, not into a sanctuary made with hands, a copy of the trueone, but into heaven itself, now to appear in the presence of God on ourbehalf.)



    Why then dowe receive him in Holy Communion? It is precisely so that we ‘abide’ in him,and become part of this same process of death to sin, life in resurrectionpower, and self-offering to the Father.

    John.6:56 Hewho eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me, and I in him.



    Lastly,consider this. In Jewish thinking, life is in the blood. So sacrifice wasalways done by draining the blood from the animal. This separation of the bodyand blood at the last supper is a symbolic foreshadowing of the actualseparation of the body and blood of Jesus on the cross in death. But in theresurrection, Jesus is reunited, his spirit which had gone down to the realmsof the dead is reunited with his body, which is once again intact in terms ofbody and blood.

    So when wereceive in Communion his resurrected body and blood, it does not matter if wereceive from the chalice or the host, for his body and blood are reunited and sowe receive his body and blood under both species (under the appearance of wineor bread). Cool, huh?








  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭BrianCalgary


    Very well said Bonnie. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    bonniebede wrote: »


    Hmm, i wondered. From a Catholic perspective, confirmation in the C of I is not a sacrament. Baptism is, because anyone can baptise; similarly with marriage, it is the couple who confer the sacrament on each other, where there is a priest present he is only there as an official witness for the church, not as mninister of the sacrament. For confirmation you need to have a bishop, or a priest delegated by a Bishop. As (from a Catholic perspective) there is no valid priesthood in the C of I, your c of i confirmation would not be considered a true sacrament, and you should have received this when you entered the Church. You could approach your local pp about it if you were interested.
    ...
    So when wereceive in Communion his resurrected body and blood, it does not matter if wereceive from the chalice or the host, for his body and blood are reunited and sowe receive his body and blood under both species (under the appearance of wineor bread). Cool, huh?






    Now I'm confused!!!):D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    I am confused too :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    notsobusy wrote: »
    I am confused too :o
    ... so you are still confused.

    Just go and get Saved ... and marry in whatever church you choose to get married in !!!:)

    BTW congratulations ... and may all of your troubles be little ones!!!:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    J C wrote: »
    ... so you are still confused.

    Just go and get Saved ... and marry in whatever church you choose to get married in !!!:)

    BTW congratulations ... and may all of your troubles be little ones!!!:)

    Thank you JC! We have a meeting with my Reverend next week to discuss all......my other half is still adamant that he will not do the marriage course and adamant that he is not writing to the bishop for permission.

    Apparently when he got married before he had to do all those things and all the priest did was say that being a protestant was terrible and catholicism was the way to go.....:rolleyes:

    He is now considering coverting or we just do a non religious ceremony :)


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