seperated and dating again

hi boardsers

im separated a few months, do you think its too early to date again. really fancy a bloke i work with and there seems to be alot of chemistry between us. but im just nervous people will think im an absolute bi*ch to my ex. we are both from similar area. really nervous about it all.

any views would be appreciated.

foxy lass

stargazer 68

Who cares what people might think OP! If you think you are ready to date again then go for it. Dont let the chance pass you by just in case someone may not approve!!

RoscommonTom

Feck them all, just go for it...lifes too short, bit of sex, fun and craic. I say go for him and Feck the grudgers.

P. Breathnach

I don't think it's too early. You are technically a free agent.

Furthermore, a few months is long enough for it to be clear that you didn't have another man waiting in the wings while the separation was being processed.

For your own sake, I hope you are clear in your head about whether there might be a rebound element in the chemistry you feel.

Piliger

foxylass wrote: »

hi boardsers

im separated a few months, do you think its too early to date again. really fancy a bloke i work with and there seems to be alot of chemistry between us. but im just nervous people will think im an absolute bi*ch to my ex. we are both from similar area. really nervous about it all.

You may be separated only a few months but I'll bet the process of disengagement started a long time ago. That is what really matters.

So you are not only technically separated - but also emotionally separated a lot longer, and are perfectly reasonable to move on and see other people.

Just be cautious about rebounding ...

All the best.

daisybelle2008

'What other people think' is the absolute worst reason in the world for not doing anything. Follow your heart and don't take anything too seriously, keep it light and fun and you won't go too wrong!

thanks for all the replies. your right. i need to get on with things now. thanks again.