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Isitme

  • 12-08-2012 11:38am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭


    Was trying to talk to my boyfriend of 5 years this morning in the kitchen. He is a very impulsive person and does stuff without thinking so I was trying to tell him how to go about doing something this morning and he just flipped. He smashed plates and started shouting at me.. Saying hes sick of me moaning morning noon and night. I left the kitchen and went to let him cool off.

    He then told me I make him loose his temper.. that everything's my fault... I'm so fed up and I'm in situation where Im broke and can't see a way of leaving him.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,613 ✭✭✭Toast4532


    Can you stay with family or friends until you get a place of your own? Either a house-share or renting alone. A house share would be much cheaper.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 894 ✭✭✭filmbuffboy


    you say being broke is stopping you from leaving him.

    can you move in with family/friends temporarily until you get sorted?

    if thats not an option can you borrow money off someone to set yourself up?

    dont stay in an abusive situation a minute longer!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,779 ✭✭✭up for anything


    He then told me I make him loose his temper..


    Danger signal - refusal to take responsibility for his own reactions.

    You should contact someone from your nearest women's refuge. While you are probably not a refuge candidate (yet) they would be very helpful with practical information on how to go about extricating yourself from your situation. Also visit or phone your local citizens advice bureau. They would be extremely helpful in explaining your options if you want to leave him but are worried about financing your departure and subsequent re-start in life.


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